Why do the majority of women deny to people that they avoid tall, buff and well endowed hunks who also?
happen to be handsome? When every time they see one they basically drool. The eyes say a lot even if the mouth doesn’t. I actually do match all of those things and women will just get one look and suddenly I swear many are thinking “If I wasn’t married right now It’d be so on dude”. Hunky guys have instant mad sex appeal to ANY women. I’m actually polite though and respect them so I’ve only ever slept with one women and that was in a commited relationship too. My point is that women basically lose themselves when they see a really hunky dude walk by…why do they deny it though
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“Hunky guys have instant mad sex appeal to ANY woman.”
If that’s true, then I have simply never met the type of guy you are describing.
But I don’t know that women deny it. Women I know will admit to being attracted to good looking men.
Just as men drool over attractive women walking down the street but then don’t even make an effort to really get to know them beyond the superficial.
Maybe they are intimidated by your humility?
Sounds like you might be generalizing something that appears true. Remember, you see and interact with all the females that fall for you and make eyes, but there might be just as many that walked right by in the background that never noticed the hunky guy, and the hunky guy never noticed them, hence his personal statistics get skewed.
There was a test done many years ago to match verbal responses to eye dilation responses for men and women. There was a much larger percentage of females that answered in contrast to their auto-biological responses than men. I’ll try to find it, but I only have educated guesses as to why and how.
Well, I’ve already found two studies that showed in contrast to what I said, so I don’t know.
Ladies? What’s the answer? :)
Have you stopped smoking?
Even if I were attracted by your looks, the second you opened your mouth and showed the size of your ego, I would be really turned off.
You’re assuming women have the same instant turn-on based on visual stimulation that men do. We’re not wired that way. We may notice a good looking guys and not necessarily have the urge to sleep with him.
Women are more attracted to personality than looks as @mariinelife pointed out.
And your penis is ugly and we could care less how big it is. Again, that’s a guy thing, not a girl thing.
You’re reading something into their eyes that probably isn’t there.
Cleverly worded. If the women on this thread deny that we behave that way, then, by your logic, we have proved your point.
Bullshit, and bullshit again. You claim you are “polite” and “respectful” but your assumption about “the majority of women” proves you wrong. Yes, women are attracted to attractive men, just as men are attracted to attractive women. Unless you are telepathic (which I tend to doubt) and thus KNOW what they think, you are probably way off base. Often a woman will look at a hunky guy and think “Nice looking dude. I think I want pasta for dinner. Do I have time to get to the cleaner before they close? I think there’s a pebble in my shoe. Ow.”
One is almost always wrong when they ascribe generalized emotions/motives/reactions to the “majority” of a group.
Because all women are secrectly sex-crazed sluts but still insist on being treated like regular, male-type human beings. It just boggles the mind. It’s so awesome of you to restrain yourself from exploiting your incredible hunkiness by not allowing these legions of obsessed women to take you to bed, you gift from God.
I’m confused about what you’re asking.
I think he thinks that every woman who looks at him wants to have sex with him, but we just deny it.
Just proves he doesn’t know women very well.
The wording, on a reread, is confusing. Do they deny that they avoid the buff guys, meaning that they admit to not avoiding them? I read it too quickly the first time. I don’t see where he mentions that he, himself, is the handsome buff guy that the majority of women deny avoiding.
Crap. Either I’m really not getting this, or it is so badly worded that it’s just silly.
” I actually do match all of those things and women will just get one look and suddenly I swear many are thinking “If I wasn’t married right now It’d be so on dude”.”
He does think that he is the man he is describing.
Tall, buff and well endowed hunks are attractive to most women, true. But these guys aren’t perfect and , if ignored, are doing something that are turning women off. For instance, smoking cigarettes, having a “stupid” look, bad posture, are under five feet seven inches tall, have bad teeth, cheap looking clothes and/or shoes, too much Axe aftershave (God I hate that smell) or just emit a way of saying, ‘Look at me and suffer, you ordinary wench.’
Ah, I thought (because I read it too fast and got instantly annoyed) that he said “I actually do watch all of those things…”
I probably should read stuff more carefully before climbing on my high horse.
Handsome men are wonderful of course but that doesn’t mean we’re going to throw ourselves at them without knowing them. Personality is far more important to me. Perhaps the women in question are merely denying that they will date a man just because he’s handsome.
I am definitely denying that I would sleep with a man just because he is handsome.
I am pretty much all of those too.
However, until my current GF, who is better than me in too many ways, I was generally no luckier with or appealing to women than any other guy.
My cousin (whom I love and respect like a brother) once told me that all of those “assets” were worthless unless I had a bank account to match. It may be a bit cynical, but I think there is some truth to that.
I think women will choose rich ugly man over a good looking poor one.
Probably because the women assume the guy is gay, anyway.
Maybe, because it is true for a lot of women. I never wanted some Fabio type, I want a smart, down to earth guy with humor and integrity. Eye candy is dandy but it is substance that sustains, goes both ways of course.
We all know that the prettier they come the more likely they are to be shallow simpletons.
Not always but often.
Who cares anyway? Arm candy is a dime a dozen, and fantasy is not what the basis of reality is all about.
Sometimes being good-looking is a handicap. You lean on it too much and don’t spend as much time developing an awesome personality to match.
Stop fixating on your looks. Develop a better personality—and a better grasp on writing coherent questions. And you might get past the initial knee-jerk, here’s-a-good-looking-guy, once-over.
I’m now wondering if you are asking why females deny their attraction to that which they find attractive (as in, they find the eye candy to be eye candy, but don’t like the full package), or why females deny being initially attracted to the guy in the first place.
Obviously, by the answers given here, there’s a difference between finding him attractive and denying it, and finding him physically attractive, admitting it, but more is considered than just his attractive appearance.
If most are in fact finding you physically attractive, I don’t know why they would deny the attraction. Why not just say, “yes, hot men are hot, but that’s not what I base my decisions on as to whom I have sex with or pursue long term relations with.”?
The question is, why do they deny the physical attraction, not why are they ultimately disinterested in relationship… right? Or am I still missing something?
And the question is silly. We don’t deny physical attraction. We will usually reject acting upon it, tho, unless there is something in his personality that makes it worth while.
And where did he go? Has he been standing in front of the mirror admiring his hot self for the last 21 hours?
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