(NSFW) Women: does penis appearance matter to you and what do you look for/find attractive if it does?

It matters. In my part of the world, most men are uncircumcised. Be clean. Size matters, yes, but not as much as you might think. Odd curves are fine. The best penises I have seen are, not hugely huge, not terribly small, not circumcised, and clean and neat. Their owners know how to do other nice things, and also how to use them. not the jackhammer

It matters.

I’ve honestly never seen an uncircumcised penis in person, and I’m grateful. They look like anteaters and it creeps me out. I know it’s natural, but no thanks.

All of the penises I’ve encountered have been good looking. My first boyfriend was 9–10 inches, so it sure as hell wasn’t going in me, but it was straight and smooth. My husband’s is similar, but at a much more manageable size.

At the risk of sounding like an asshole, white guys definitely got all the luck in the attractive penis game. Personally, I think they just look better in general.

I like for everything to be proportional. No abnormally large head or disproportionate girth. I wouldn’t mind a slight curve.

And, aside from that, cleanliness and grooming are important. Keep it trimmed (with the balls shaved, please), keep the salt and vinegar chips smell at bay, and we’re good to go.

^ balls shaved amen.

Peni are not attractive. Period. But some are even less attractive than others (bumps, poor hygiene, etc). And no, I have never had a discussion with a girlfriend about a penis.

The man matters. Everything else is icing on the cake.

Peni is definitely not the plural form of penis.

I’m packing 7½ ” of prime British beef, nice girth & a lovely olive tone.
My penis is aesthetically pleasing & has drew compliments suggesting as much from sexual partners past & of course, present.
It has also won several awards for outstanding work in the community…no, wait!

Speaking as a heterosexual male who has seen various penises over the course of life, I think that mens’ abdomens / crotches / general nether regions – are visually and aesthetically far less attractive than womens’.

This has nothing to do with sex or sexual attractiveness. It has to do with symmetry, feng shui, and art.

Womens’ abdomens- whether shaved or unshaved – have a balance, maybe symmetry about them. They’re all essentially triangular, but there’s a simplicity of balance to women.

Men, on the other hand, have these irregular protrusions that hang down irregularly. They’re often not straight, they are usually unbalanced – in other words, they don’t give a symmetric visual image.

Said another way- women’s crotches are like Danish Modern furniture – elegant, simple, comfortable. Mens’ are like ornate Victorian furniture – overly detailed, artistically obfuscating, and just not that attractive.

Of course, this is just my opinion.

The plural form of penis is penes.

Or what most people actually say – penises.

I’m with @jca. Could care less about size, shape, circumcision, whatever. They all do the same thing, fulfill the same function which is simply to deposit sperm. I think it’s pretty safe to say that the penis has little or nothing to do with whether or not a woman has an orgasm, no matter how big it is, and an orgasm is our main objective, of course, as it is for a man.

Cleanliness is important, of course, but that’s across the board.

I can honestly say that I have never used the plural for “penis.” I’m trying to imagine a conversation where I would even use it in the first place!

I’ve never orgasmed only by penetration, but I do orgasm quite often during penetration, usually more than once, from his pelvis grinding against mine as he thrusts, and the penis does intensify the orgasm. So I wouldn’t say it has little to do with my orgasm, personally. My husband’s penis does a bit more than deposit sperm. And if it’s going in my mouth, I’d prefer that it not be hideous, that’s all I’m saying.

I actually think vaginas are quite ugly. I don’t think either type of genitalia would be attractive if sex was taken out of the picture, but I find penises quite attractive when I’m turned on.

I just used the plural form, so there you go.

I care about hygiene but beyond that meh. Genitals are ugly in general. Size doesn’t matter to me either unless it’s too big. I don’t orgasm from penetrative sex so my only concern with size is whether it’s going to hurt me or not.

@Dutchess_III _“Could care less about size, shape, circumcision, whatever. _”

If you could care less, then by how much do you care? Imagine a care scale from 0 to 10. What measure of “care” would it be?

If I am in in love with a guy, I wouldn’t care. If I thought it was “ugly,” (and they’re all about the same amount of ugly to me) it certainly wouldn’t cause me to dump him. “I love you, your personality rocks, we belong together, but your penis is ugly, so Buh Bye.” How shallow would that be? It would be like a man dumping a woman he loved for no reason other than he doesn’t like the shape of her boobs.

GA @Mariah.

Who falls in love with a guy before seeing him naked?

Me.

Well you’re definitely in the minority, there, unless you count young girls who claim to fall in “love” in the course of a few days. I was in love with my husband before we had sex (6 months after meeting), but I’d seen his penis plenty beforehand.

So, you waited until you saw his penis to fall in love with him?

Seems I’m in the minority. I think most (healthy and hygienic) genitals are beautiful. Male and female.

There’s no one ideal penis to me. They’re all different and (insert adjective for beauty, but still manly here) in their own way.

There was only one time I was disappointed in a penis. I was in my teens and had a one night stand. Turns out his penis was practically non-existent. I’ll never forget that shock and disappointment. I was embarrassed.

@Dutchess_III Yes, that’s exactly what I meant. My love for him is based solely on his beautiful penis.~