”[I]t just doesn’t make sense to fully educate yourself in something that you don’t need to know”
I’ve found it actually does. Knowing Theology helps quite a bit when understanding other cultures/demographics; very handy if, say, you wind up in a diverse metropolitan area (like Boston, San Diego, Seattle), or on a Navy ship pulling into foreign ports (like I was in my early-20s). Knowledge of hydraulics (something electricians “don’t need to know”) has helped me at work and saved me a few thousand dollars at home.
There’s what you think you need to know and what you actually need to know, and you’ll find a lot of differences between those two lists.
“If I choose not to learn about something its my choice.”
Quite true. Of course, ignorance isn’t always bliss; sometimes it’s quite dangerous… and sometimes a danger that affects more than just one person. Given that I am altruistic enough to not want to see innocent people hurt (or even discomforted), especially not for the acts of others, willful ignorance is a bit of a sore point for me.
” I also think that there are occasions where learning something, specifically by experience, is not the best idea.”
This is pretty much why I value education. The more you learn from the experiences of others, the less you have to learn the hard way. Learning is ALWAYS a good idea, even if that learning is what not to do by seeing someone else suffer.
“My parents gave me sex ed when I was nine… My mother and father are very smart people, who wanted to teach me about things before the rest of my class was even thinking about it.”
That is a degree of enlightenment I personally have yet to see in anyone pious enough to be anti-Harry Potter. As I can only answer based on what I have seen/experienced, I naturally assume far less progressive behavior. Maybe your upbringing really was/is less strict than any I’ve ever seen though.
”[T]hat doesn’t mean they should be exposed to certain things as 5, 7, 9 year old. ”
Guiding works better than barring and hoping they don’t run around behind your back. I don’t know about you, but I have always been rather curious, and also willful enough that I won’t turn off that curiosity just because someone doesn’t want to let me get the answers to my questions.
Personally, I first got the sex talk when I was 4. (A bit young, but I was also reading at a third-grade level by then too.) It wasn’t “out of the blue” though, or even my parent’s choice; I asked questions and got honest answers. It didn’t shatter my little mind, nor did it make me “play doctor” with one of my female classmates the way some people think sex ed leads to promiscuity. Had I been left to find answers on my own, it would’ve turned out quite differently, and probably worse.
In fact, by age 5, I had been exposed to sex, drugs, alcohol, smoking, death, and all sorts of things that most parents wouldn’t want their kids exposed to until they’re at least 18. That early exposure actually kept me in line for the most part; watching a relative in the hospital awaiting a liver transplant due to alcoholism tends to leave an impression, and good parenting will turn it into a lesson rather than a psychological scar.
My take is that it’s rarely too soon, but an easily be too late.
“Its strange how educating yourself in one particular belief, and actually believing it, seems to be thought of as idiocy.”
Some people feel that faith (belief without proof) is a bit silly, possibly even dumb, yes. But I think that where true idiocy comes in is when one revels in their ignorance, and consider remaining uneducated not just a right, but a badge of honor. There is a rising wave of anti-intellectualism in the US, and like many, I have very strong feelings about that.
“And Christians aren’t brainwashed. ”
True, most aren’t. Most are also pretty subtle about their faith; subtle enough that you’d at least have to ask if they follow any religion at all. Some are a bit more obvious though.
“With the amount of information on the internet, they can learn about anything they’d like. No one’s stopping them.”
Precisely the problem; they can but won’t. They’ve had the curiosity drained out of them. They’re practically programmed to not question things. The curiosity that led Man to build wings and fly, The curiosity that led to inventing the internet, and obtaining much of the knowledge on it.
” If they felt that certain things didn’t match up they could always join an apologetics class or talk to the pastor.”
Now you know why I’m an Agnostic; too many questions that couldn’t be answered.