@funkdaddy Same here, except that the rents were high enough that even being that poor still places one above the eligibility limits for most aid. Trust me, living in a panel truck in New England sucks during the winter. In fact, I would’ve had a better chance at school if my mother and I remained that poor instead of her working her way off of welfare and taking an extra part-time job or two to cover the shortfall that happens when you fall between the cracks.
As for time, effort, and future earnings, if you insist on living indoors and eating regularly, odds are that you’ll lose time and split effort just trying to live and thus have less of either for college. And future earnings are no guarantee; I know Home Depot floor workers and McDonalds burger flippers with degrees (not Liberal Arts degrees either).
It may be a little different in places where rents run about one-third to one-half what they do anywhere I ever lived (and I’ve lived in all four corners of the 48 states), but that is what I see, have seen many times before, grew up with, and all, so that colors my opinion. It’s not wrong to base personal opinion on a lifetime of experience and observation, is it? If you want to get a little closer to my experience, a couple would need at least $35k/yr from day one just to be off the street and eating, and a bit more when the loan payments start to come due. In that light, I think you can see why many would choose to get right to work instead of racking up even more bills.
I will allow for the possibility that my life is a staggering number of improbabilities, but it seems that there are enough people from backgrounds similar to mine that I won’t give much allowance as the odds of that many people having that degree of improbability are too low for my entire life to be nothing but flukes. Therefore, I must assume that the truth, while probably not as bad as my history and observations, is nowhere near as rosy as your happy little fairy tale ending. Regardless, I think our differing views come from being in different circumstances, and having differing experiences.
@ARE_you_kidding_me I did the math. Ten years ago, even with all the grants, the GI Bill, in-state discount and everything like that, I was looking at about $8k/yr out-of-pocket for education, plus considerably more for room and board, assuming I wanted to separate from my wife to save money instead of keep a more costly place off-campus. The numbers have gotten worse since then as tuition increases have outpaced wages.
Without an iron-clad, written in stone guarantee of employment that would allow me to repay considerable debt, I wasn’t about to gamble. Especially not after seeing my mother go through that. Relying on “if” is stupid, and saying it’s a cop-out because I would rather be assured of an income rather than risk being unemployed and homeless tells me that you have lead a charmed life full of luck and good fortune.
Now, is $40k in debt with only an uncertain chance of that degree working for you an acceptable risk? Is a degree an unbreakable promise that you will earn more? Before you answer, remember that you’re talking to a tradesman in a field where the median income is comparable to what someone with a Bachelors degree pulls in. Some people decline college simply because we don’t want to default ourselves and make this issue worse. I once thought as you did, then I hit The Real World.