(NSFW) Men: is it more exciting to undress a woman, or would you prefer she comes out of the bathroom in lingerie?

I’d rather have an active role in the disrobing process. For one thing, the suspense lasts longer.

I’m not a man, but I hope I can interject. Why not put lingerie under the clothes, than he can do both :)

I can’t script a sexual scene, I just have to let it flow. I love lingerie, so I guess either finding it under the clothing or just having her come out of the bathroom would work.

I love both your examples equally.

My husband is not interested in lingerie. I like it, but he’s told me he’d much rather just get to my body. The pretty packaging is superfluous to his needs (my phrasing not his). So I guess he’d just want to remove my clothing, lingerie or not, as quickly as possible.

@Earthbound_Misfit – I share your husband’s eagerness. Although not with you, of course.

lol @elbanditoroso.

The best lingerie is that which comes off easily and quickly.

For me, I love admiring a woman in hot lingerie, but I don’t like a lot of rolling around with it. To me, taking the clothes off each other slowly and deliberately is part of the foreplay.

Even in shitty old clothes with paint on them, I have nice lingerie underneath. So it all gets taken off, some outside, some on they way inside, then maybe the knickers in the bedroom.

Both can be a lot of fun, but I prefer the lingerie for a couple of reasons. I appreciate the effort and time it takes to find something flattering that makes her feel sexy, it makes things special. Effort is a good thing on both sides.

More practically, all her buttons are the wrong way, her pants are too tight by male standards, her zippers are dainty tiny things that she’s usually laying on, and at some point you just have to make a call on the whole socks on/socks off debate. Lingerie is usually easier than a ziploc bag to figure out.

Also, I’m sure I’m the only dingus here who occasionally thinks it’s business time, and goes for that first button, when instead she says “thanks for doing the dishes. Goodnight”, or “my mother will be here in 5 minutes with our daughter” <doorbell> “you should get some pants”.

Lingerie sends a pretty clear signal, which I appreciate.

I like ripping it off myself.

@funkdaddy Holy hell that video is funny!

@anniereborn If you’ve never seen Flight of the Conchords, please check it out! The series is hilarious.

She walks in, butt naked & undressesessessess me, wearing her clothes.
More exciting if they actually fit, but not overly essential.

Definitely the lingerie, I would guess most men are the same.

I like peeling them off like layers of an onion myself, then I can take liberties to fondle and grope certain parts before actually handling them bare.

Variety is always the best. But if I had to pick just one, I think I’d rather have my hands on you while the clothes are coming off.

Retelling of the age old “foreplay” question?
Or even “realist versus dreamer”?

All my sexual life, I’ve preferred a sexy person to a sexy body. Yeah, I have my attractions and distractions, but I’m certain I would have more fun with pudge and passion than I would with svelte and steely.

Even when I was a kid, “Let’s get naked” was a turn-off. Cripes. I wanted to grope and grind, work our way undone, and build the heat.