Wrong timing?
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April 16th, 2015
Does anyone believe in meeting the right person at the wrong time?
I am totaly into this one man and he seems to be into me. He texts me “good morning” every day. He is in a band and that is his whole life, but he is not into groupies etc.. he’s mature and pretty much has a been there, done that attitude.
The thing is he has mentioned that at this time he doesn’t have time for a relationship and he’s mostly always out with his roadies and guy friends.
We are not in a friends with benefits situation but we do go out to lunch, dinner, movies…If he wants to be alone, why does he keep reaching out to me? i’m not anyone he could benefit from like promoters, music business etc…I’m just me.
I feel he likes me but something is holding him back..I’ve tried to back away several times and he just eventually comes back around.
Men are men, I know, I was just wanting to get opinions on this situation.
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Yes, there are many instances of people meeting at the wrong time in each other’s lives. But it is hard to say that is what has happened in your life.
What do you want in a relationship with him? What would a relationship with him look like beyond where it is now?
You can tell him what you want, and he can say yes or no. And you can decide what you are willing to accept from him, and accept it or move on.
I should have added to my response that it’s not clear as to whether or not you have yet had sex with him. I ask because you say he “has mentioned that at this time he doesn’t have time for a relationship” and you go out to lunch, dinner, movies, and that he keeps reaching out to you but you feel like something is holding him back. So I wonder as to how close you are (hence my sex question) and I ask if he is married, if you know, because I wonder if that’s what is holding him back. If he’s not married, maybe he has another relationship or plural relationships elsewhere.
“Full of wise care is this your counsel madam”
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