What is an appropriate gift for a re-marrying dad and his fiancé?
My dad is getting married again. That in itself is not easy. It is made more complicated by the strained relationship between my family and his girlfriend.
I feel that a gift is “compulsory” when attending a wedding. My family says to ignore that feeling, but I do want my dad happy.
Do you agree that a gift is pretty much expected? Do you think this gift needs to be large? My dad asked for, “a nice DVD”, which doesn’t seem special enough. On the other hand, I have NO money to spare at the moment.
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I think the fact that you have no money and your dad specifically asked for a nice DVD should be your guide. Gifts are not compulsory. They are to express and acknowledgement of the couple’s happiness.
I never asked my kids what they got their Dad for his remarriage. I would agree with Marina that if he suggested a nice DVD, that would be fine. Maybe a collection of films from one of his favorite actors or directors.
Divorce – the gift that keeps on giving! ~
Take your dad at his word. He knows you’re broke, and for him, it’s probably particularly true that “it’s the thought that counts”.
EVIL PENGUIN. I blew pizza from my nose all over the screen
Make something for them: A picture, poem, collage, or something equally heartfelt. That would mean a lot more than a DVD.
I figure I punched my wedding gift ticket with the first marriage.
I would expect nothing from anyone,except their best wishes. if I ever married again.
And if there is an exception to this principle, it would never apply to someone who had no money anyway.
I infer your father shares a similar point of view.
Overthinking a non problem in my opinion.
Is ‘Nice DVD a code?” Was there a special movie for you and your dad/family?
If not, a gift certificate to a local video outlet of Netflix would be in order?
Thank you, all. We are combining DVDs with a nicely-written card, thinking about adding a small creative present, too. Might be a kind of movie-night-in-basket, with popcorn, etc. I’m more relaxed now, will not stress myself out. There are loads of other guests, and presents galore.
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