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Researching cities/towns to relocate?

Asked by Jonathan_hodgkins (690points) May 6th, 2015

My girlfriend and I are looking to relocate in 2016 in order to start a life together but we are unsure how to determine the best places to live. Do you have any thoughts as to what resources are available that give a good sense of place as far as cost of living and resident happiness, etc? Any sites, reports or books that would be beneficial in this search?

Our criteria:

- reasonable cost of living (not too expensive)
– Grocery options are reasonable & healthy
– City/town is easily accessible via bicycle
– City is relatively safe
– Agreeable climate
– Healthy arts scene (gf is involved in project management)
– Tech Firms or startups in the area (I am an mechanical engineer)
– Access to outdoor activities within driving distance (hiking, canoeing, etc)
– Residents are involved in the community

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rojo's avatar

Colorado Springs.

Decent climate, some snow.
Healthy lifestyles, lots of bikers
short drive to Denver and other cities.
Lots of outdoorsy stuff
Very involved community.

If not Springs, check out Durango or Pagosa Springs.
Aspen, etc probably too high a cost of living.

wildpotato's avatar

Not Colorado Springs. It is cheap and gorgeous in parts, but is also a methy, trashy, extremely conservative city. And not very techy or terribly bikeable for cross-town, serious transportation due to insane sprawl.

I hear great things about Asheville.

jaytkay's avatar

What is an “agreeable climate” for you?

Any examples of places where you do and do not like the weather?

DrasticDreamer's avatar

- Reasonable cost of living (not too expensive): Define “expensive”

– Grocery options are reasonable & healthy: Portland, Oregon – Very big on organic and supporting local stores. Very big on farmer’s markets. Tons and tons of vegan and vegetarian options. We also have regular grocery stores.

– City/town is easily accessible via bicycle: Portland, Oregon – One of, if not the most bike-friendly city in the country.

– City is relatively safe: Unsure. Check one of the links @Kardamom provided for you. I feel pretty safe.

– Agreeable climate: Depends on what you mean by agreeable. It rains a lot here. Like… 6–9 months out of the year.

– Healthy arts scene (gf is involved in project management): Portland is very, very artistic.

– Tech Firms or startups in the area (I am an mechanical engineer): https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Silicon_Forest

– Access to outdoor activities within driving distance (hiking, canoeing, etc): Portland – we have every climate imaginable 30 minutes to an hour in every single direction. Beaches, deserts, hiking, water falls, canoeing, wind surfing, Mt. Hood, rain forest, caving, etc., etc., etc.

– Residents are involved in the community: Portland, definitely.

I wasn’t going to give you a specific city, but Portland fit a lot of your criteria, so it’s something to consider.

JLeslie's avatar

I would think the most important thing is ability to find a job in the new city.

The websites I would check are sites like best places to live in the US or US healthiest cities, that sort of thing. There are also lists like top ten friendliest cities, if you like friendliness, and I usually look up crime rates also. Crime rates you can plug in your zip code and the new zipcode and compare. I think it’s good to compare, because you know how you feel in your current city, but might be very unaware of the actual crime rates.

There are several different online calculators where you put in a salary for the city you live in now and the calculator tells you how much you need to earn to be even in the new city. The calculators aren’t perfect of course, but it gives you an idea.

Financial things I would really pay attention to are taxes, everything from sales tax to income tax. Some states have property tax on cars, which for my husband and me is a big increase in expense. When we lived in TN the sales tax was 9.25%! If you are big spenders that’s a lot of money. They taxed groceries in that state also, which a lot of states don’t.

Check out realtor.com and look at the housing. Beware that it still is very important to actually see the areas. You might see a very attractive new house that looks great online, but it might be being built in an area of town that is just starting to go through a rejuvenation. That can be fine, but it depends if you are willing to take the risks associated with that.

I’ve lived in many different places, my best advice is visit before you move go there and shop in the supermarkets, check out whatever makes your daily routine pleasant for you. Available gyms, libraries, parks, clubs, whatever it is. Feeling settled for me has a lot to do with the house/apartment I live in, convenience, climate, access to a pool, and feeling safe. I have another friend who feels settled once she joins a tennis club and starts playing and making friends there.

I also like being near a hub airport so I can fly nonstop easily. That might not matter to you.

Arts scene is often good near universities, or places with lots of Jews. Although, when I lived in Memphis the local theatre was excellent. That was a surprise to me.

Here in the Tampa Bay Area the arts are fantastic. We have the Dali Museum in St. Petersburg, the collection is incredible and there is always an additional exhibit of a featured artist. There is another art museum in that city that is lovely. The symphony here is wonderful, three large performing arts theatres within an hour of each each other, Broadway tours, all sorts of historical cities nearby. Lakeland, FL has FL southern college designed by Frank Lloyd Wright, the Morse museum in Winter Park has an incredible collection of Tiffany that it literally takes my breath away. I doubt Tampa Bay really meets all your criteria, but my point is a lot of times cities and regions of the country have things you don’t expect.

Lastly, you can always move again if it doesn’t work out.

marinelife's avatar

Sperling’s best places catalogs a whole lot of cities and towns on various factors including cost of living, climate and weather, walkability, etc.

sahID's avatar

The City Data website(link) is another not-to-be-missed resource. In addition to literally every factotum of information on cities nationwide (and in Canada), this website also hosts a wealth of state-specific and city-specific forums. Here it is possible to read what others are saying & reporting about whatever cities you find interesting, plus you can contribute your own questions.

In addition, they have a tool that allows you to specify up to 10 criteria of importance then use them to search for cities that match your needs or interests.

linguaphile's avatar

@JLeslie Is the RIngling Bros & Barnum Bailey Museum still in business? If so, that’s another great place to go in the Tampa Bay/St. Pete/Sarasota area.

JLeslie's avatar

@linguaphile I know it was in business a year ago, so I assume it still is. I’ve never been to it, but I probably should before we move.

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rojo's avatar

Wonder where ol’ Jonathan ended up?

Tropical_Willie's avatar

I don’t know, but he has been on Fluther this week.

rojo's avatar

@Jonathan_hodgkins where did you go?

Jonathan_hodgkins's avatar

Hey everyone, we are actually in Chicago because my partner has work here, but we are thinking about using all of this amazing knowledge in the next year or two in order to relocate.
Thanks for all your input!!!

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