Supposing you knew that your life would expire at age 30, would you have bothered to do most of the things you have done?
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May 11th, 2015
School, studies, marriage, kids, dreams, buying a home and so on. If we all knew that 30 would be the cut off point, most wouldn’t bother, would they?
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I’m already trying to do what my youth allows me to. That scenario would only enhance my “yolo” slogan.
I watched my father die in front of me when I was 12. He was 35. If you had told me back then I would live this full and rich of a live, I’d have laughed. But wow, I’ve been so fing blessed. Yeah, there have been hiccups, but I overcame them so far.
Like @Adirondackwannabe I experienced the death of a parent at a young age. I think it changes your perspective on life. I’m not unhappy with any of my decisions. I don’t feel any of the choices I’ve made were wrong at the time. I’m happy with the life I’ve had. I wouldn’t change a thing. Even the sad stuff.
If I have a regret, it’s that I didn’t wake up to my potential early enough and I didn’t travel as much as I could have in my youth. Realistically though, back then I probably wouldn’t have valued those things as much as I do now. I really do see life as a journey. You have to keep taking new roads to see where you end up. It’s a magical, mystery tour. Some roads go to great places, others not so much. It’s all about the experience.
I would not have gotten married because I wouldn’t do that to my wife (leave her a widow). As such, I also would not have bought a house.
I would have stepped up my game in the school and career department. But would have skipped love, marriage and having family.
Thirty years is plenty of time for a career, but not nearly enough time to say goodbye.
No way of knowing, pointless guessing.
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