My guy friend confuses me ,can you help me with his behavior?

It sounds like he likes you as a girlfriend, and you hurt his feelings.

You are wasting your time on pointless chitchat. He IS graduating from college, the point is what are YOU doing sweetie? Are you focusing on studies/qualifications/work opportunities and on having fun in your youth? Don’t take flirting too seriously, before you know it he will be gone and forgotten. Lighten up, set priorities and take care of yourself.

Is this the same guy friend who you asked about a few days ago? The one who you Skype with daily and he sits there for hours not talking or doing anything?

Question here:http://www.fluther.com/181453/why-does-he-behave-this-way-towards-me/

Or are they two different guys?

First problem: Don’t make jokes like “I have a lot of different guys.” Most people will not find those kinds of jokes amusing.

Sorry for the bad link above. Here it is:

http://www.fluther.com/181453/why-does-he-behave-this-way-towards-me/

I think you are both confused

It’s really quite obvious. He wants to be more than friends, but isn’t game to say it explicitly. That’s probably because you’re toying with him, and he doesn’t know if he’s in the friend zone or not.

You need to send him a clear signal – either go on a date with him and see how it goes, or tell him it’ll never happen. But stop toying with him. He’ll only resent you when he figures out how you’re behaving, and you may end up resenting him if he gives up on you and finds a better girl to be with.

And never tell a guy you have a lot of guys in your life. That isn’t a joke. It’s telling him you’re not worth his time.

Let him go and travel before he falls in love with the wrong girl again.