Straight folks, who's your same sex-crush?

Asked by Kardamom (33494

) June 27th, 2015

I recall a similar question being asked when I first joined Fluther, way back in 2010. There are so many new faces (well, names and avatars anyway) so I thought it would be fun to ask again, especially on this historic day in history.

Note: for anyone reading this a year, or 10 years or 100 years from now (June 26, 2015) today is the day that the United States Supreme Court declared same sex marriage to be legal, and that it must be recognized in all 50 states. If you are a time traveler, are there still only 50 states?

For those of you who don’t quite understand the question, a straight same-sex crush is one that makes straight people feel kinda hot and bothered, but doesn’t make them act or feel gay. Yeah, it’s a thing : )

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Those of you that know me well, already know that Fran Drescher is my same-sex crush. Rowwwwrrrrr!

Kardamom (33494

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Don’t have one and never will…..so…...not real with all of us.

Hypocrisy_Central (26879

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Tim the Tool Man

MORE POWER!

bossob (5929

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I’m surprised no one has asked, in an outrageous tone, why I dared to mention “same-sex” crushes. ‘Cause what difference does it make what sex people are?~

Kardamom (33494

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That isn’t how it works (for me). There’s no such thing as a “hot” man.

stanleybmanly (24153

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M’Ress

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Kevin Spacey, handsome, charming, funny, and very very smart.

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@stanleybmanly You don’t even think Mark Harmon is a hot man?

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Sorry I have never felt warm and fuzzy for another guy, no matter who he is.
There are a lot of men I respect but got to side with @stanleybmanly on this for me there in no such thing as a hot guy.

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It’s not even a “warm and fuzzy…” it’s more like, “I wish I could be like that. I wish I could carry that off.” My husband, who is rabidly straight really likes Sam Elliot.

Dutchess_III (47069

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The Doctor.

Blondesjon (34000

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which one?

ragingloli (52231

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It doesn’t matter, they’re all The Doctor.

john hurt as the war doctor

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Olivia Wilde and Aisha Tyler. They’re both pretty outspoken and seem like pretty cool people. They’re also confident in their height, unlike me, so like a kid I kind of look up to them and wish I could be the same way. lol They’re also beautiful. I think I get crushes on anyone who is confidently outspoken about the fucked up things in life that need to change, though. I’m very passionate myself, so it always makes me feel good when I come across people who aren’t apathetic.

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