Old dogs are special. I should know, as I’m living with both a puppy and an eleven-year-old. They are very different, but I wouldn’t give up either of them for the world.
Old dogs are wonderful in lots of ways. Nerina is happy with a leisurely walk and a bit of playing fetch. It’s easy to tire her out, which is something most people consider a good thing. I, actually, missed the exercise and mental stimulation an active dog will provide, which is why I felt like I needed a puppy again. Only you can answer whether one or the other would suit your needs better. If you’re looking for a dog to help you exercise and make you the center of attention for a while, get a puppy. Puppies will drive you crazy, but they will also keep you active.
I think dogs of all ages are good at lifting spirits. While Wilson made me laugh by galloping around with a plastic box on his head today, Nerina makes me laugh by grunting a hello every morning, or by hiding her head in my lap when she wants me to scratch her back. Old dogs can have a very well-developed sense of humour.
They also often know exactly what they want. They tend to like routine and don’t enjoy change. That’s something special in itself – living with a dog who spends much of the day just calmly existing is soothing. It’s raining right now, and while the puppy wants to play, Nerina is already asleep in my bed waiting for me to join her. You might want to ask yourself how much routine you are able and willing to give this dog. I worry about Nerina getting too little structure in her days, because I don’t usually have a set schedule.
Another thing which I don’t like about old dogs is their pain. Nerina is in pain when it’s wet outside, and it’s hard for me to watch her struggle. However, an eleven-year-old Maltese is likely to be more active than a Labrador.
I think you should consider these questions:
1. What do you like most about living with a dog? Maybe even write down the top five things you love about dogs, and make sure all of them are likely to work well with an older dog.
2. How much routine will you be able to provide? In day-to-day life, but also regarding longer periods of time. Will you be able to find one place for the dog to stay at whenever you’re gone, for example?
3. Will you be able to deal with a dog in pain or distress? Of course, young dogs get old, too.
4. Is this dog absolutely perfect with people? As you will have to leave the dog for travels, you need to make sure he is absolutely bomb-proof and in love with all people, not just you. It will probably get harder for him to be left with strangers. When she was young, Nerina was happy anywhere. Now, she is much less patient and gets worried when I leave her with people she doesn’t know extremely well.
5. Has this dog ever shown signs of separation anxiety or over-bonding toward one person? I know that my sister’s Maltese mix is very much a one-man’s dog. She would hate having to watch her owner leave frequently.
That’s my take. I hope I’m not sounding too negative. I very much want you to find the right dog, and I wish I could help you find him. I’m being cautious, though, because I’m thinking of the old dogs I know. Routine really is not just a commodity for them, it’s a necessity. If you’ll be traveling for long periods, I think an old dog may not be the perfect choice.
On the other hand, weren’t you thinking about living in one part of the U.S. for the summer, then go South for winter? In that case, couldn’t you simply take a dog, especially a small one? I don’t see any issue with having two homes, other than a short period of settling in at every move.