Not sure if this applies, but it has me thinking of something from many years ago.
I was living in Isla Vista, CA at the time and my 18-year-old sister came to visit me for a month. She was quite bored after about a week, and discovered that there would be a rave (she had been to many for years) that night. Of course, there was secrecy about it, and we ended up meeting someone behind a building at a particular time to discover where and when it would be.
Very late (I’m thinking around midnight), I was to drive my sister into the hills above Isla Vista/Santa Barbara and drop her off for a few hours. Somehow, I thought this was an ok idea, although in hindsight, I probably just wanted to seem like a cool old (boring) brother. Note: If you’re unfamiliar with these hills – there is the 154, which winds up into some really remote roads. Also, the rave was to take place outside on the edge of a these hills, overlooking the pacific.
Well, the time came and we drove up into the hills. It became clear that the narrow roads (without guardrails) would not safely allow me to just turn around after I dropped her off. There were enough cars coming up behind me that it would be a challenge. When we finally got there, there was someone telling people not to turn around. This meant that I needed to find my way back down out of the moutains without a map, gps, or cell phone (obviously – 1997).
I said bye to my sister and continued off into the darkness. Lights of Goleta below and the ocean disappeared and the roads got more and more narrow. Well into my attempt to get home, I realized that I was completely lost, and the road ahead of me was washed out. I had to drive up on the side of the road to avoid the cliff.
After realizing that I was likely not going to make it home, it occurred to me that leaving my sister on the top of a mountain made me quite nervous and I regretted doing it. So, I turned around and after hours of panic, I found myself back to the rave with 10 minutes to spare before the pickup time.
Admittedly, the scene was quite amazing. As I worked my way through people dancing on the edge of cliffs overlooking the ocean, my quest to find her was overwhelming. I couldn’t find her.
I went to the specific meeting spot (next to the “water” cooler), and waited. And waited. For what seemed like an eternity, I waited there as I imagined the worst. My mind was spinning up all kinds of panic.
Eventually (close to an hour late), she appeared out of the cloud of glow-bracelets, although it honestly felt as though I had been waiting for days. And my mind had projected horror scenarios, so by the time she appeared, I was years in the future.
Ok, this turned out to not be the long, excrutiating wait story that I had imagined when I started it. Maybe the real wait is for all of you poor people who had to wait until the end of a pointless story. Sorry. In my defense, however, my “wait” started the minute I dropped her off, many hours before.