I read the article.
“In our wide-open modern era of independent careers, girl squads can help women advance if they avoid presenting a silly, regressive public image — as in the tittering, tongues-out mugging of Swift’s bear-hugging posse.”
“Girl squads ought to be about mentoring, exchanging advice and experience and launching exciting and innovative joint projects. Women need to study the immensely productive dynamic of male bonding in history. With their results-oriented teamwork, men largely have escaped the sexual jealousy, emotionalism and spiteful turf wars that sometimes dog women.”
Dismissing young women as silly, frivolous, and not to be taken seriously goes way, way back. It’s about as regressive of an argument as you can make. There’s nothing in this article that helps women.
The second paragraph quoted here makes steam come out of my ears. To escape sexual jealousy, we have to be more like men? REALLY? Sexual jealousy comes from a history of men holding all the power and resources. For most of history, women had to marry well or starve. We’ve only been able to make our own living for a couple generations. Sexual competition in women is just like men backstabbing each other to climb the corporate ladder. It’s not because men are better at friendship and teamwork (which is itself a sexist argument.) JFC. Female friendship itself is an antidote to this.
On the other hand, I think Taylor Swift is helping women. She’s a hugely successful public figure, and she’s bringing female friendship into the limelight. They’re pop stars and actors, so it’s supposed to be a bit over the top.
They’re basically doing the celebrity version of dressing up with your girlfriends for a night out on the town. The point of that is to spend time with some of your favorite people while looking/ feeling amazing- basically, an antidote to the everyday grind of work and school. It’s awesome, and this is the first time I’ve seen it in the limelight in quite a while. Paglia mentions Sex and the City a few times in her article, which is the highest-profile example I can think of, too. So it’s been since, what, the 90s?? since we’ve had female friendship in the public eye this much.
OH and one more thing. This article itself is an example of a woman cutting down another woman. I’m pretty sure calling another woman “nazi barbie” is sexual competition. So it’s a bit rich for the author to say what female friendship should or shouldn’t look like.