Since the mid-1990’s my most personal correspondence to my favorite people has been carefully handwritten, from the address on the envelope to the signature inside. When I take my time, I have a very good longhand. And personal correspondence, unlike shooting off an email or a tweet, is all about taking one’s time—time to think about the other person, time to write and write well. I might even go out of my way to use really good paper.
I began to do this when it became apparent to me that handwritten correspondence, especially that which is written in longhand, was at risk of becoming a dying art. I’ll even throw a sketch in the margin, like a small sailboat on a hard tack against the wind, or a dog or a cat sitting and reading the text—or maybe a little flowery trompe-l’œil with Ferdinand the Bull chewing the scenery. A sunset or sunrise instead of a letterhead is always nice. I’ve drawn my own stamps next to the real stamps on the outside of the envelope. Or something apropos to the letter, like Pooh’s advice to Christopher Robin that he is smarter than he thinks, or Gandhi’s description of happiness, or Karen Blixen’s thoughts on how salt water, in all it’s forms, is the cure for all of man’s ill’s.
On the outside, I like to draw something like a line of primates walking across the front of the envelope depicting the evolution of man beginning with a chimp-like creature, through Neanderthal, Cromag, then Sapiens-in-tennis-shoes and ending in a barcode. (It comes from a political cartoon I saw in the New Yorker Magazine from the 1970’s which I’ve been re-drawing ever since with endless variations.)
I often illustrate something I’m describing in the letter, like when I recently drew a simple but efficient aboriginal earth-kiln used to bake pottery here in the islands. These drawings can be whimsical and unrelated to the subject at hand as well. Doodling used to be considered a tad weird or sloppy in adult correspondence, but in recent years I’ve found people are happy to respond in kind. It shows we’ve taken our time to answer, have even become pensive and wandered a bit, and some of it is quite revealing.
Unlike most of my correspondence, which is electronic, it interjects some personality and uniqueness to the missive. Personal correspondence is, after all, meant to be personal. So I see no reason not to make it as personal as possible.