@MikeA I don’t “tolerate” other religions, I am fine with everyone believing whatever they want to. In Utah many public schools have a separate building next to school property that teaches religion and can count for school credit. I actually have no problem with that. It’s not mandatory for all children, but Mormon children can go to religious class in a convenient way and still use the public school system.
The big difference is subjecting other children to being a religious minority, in a situation that is more than just knowing they are different a religion, but actually practicing the religion.
Growing up I had friends from many religions, Muslim, Mormon, Catholic, and more, and it was a non-issue. We were all friends, never really talked about religion, except the different holidays, and I did know my Mormon friends had lived in another country, because her family went with the church for a couple of years to South America. I am so happy to have grown up in such a diverse environment, and so glad I grew up in a place that religion was not in school at all. Sure we had some holiday decorations, but religion was not discussed. I should mention I have no trouble with comparative religion class in high school as an elective.
The Muslim school I mention is a public school. Dearborn is 30% Muslim, and my guess is some schools there are over 50%. Much like Boca Raton, FL having similar percentages of Jews. Why should a Christian child have to be concerned about whose prayer will be said in the public school they are distracted for? Do the parents have to pay for private school if they are concerned their Christian children are being overly influenced?
I don’t want my children being “preached” to by other students. I want my kids when they are young to be in a sort of religious bubble. Not that I would keep them from being friends with anyone, because of their religion, but I would if religion is being brought up in a way to make them uncomfortable or try to solicit them.
A neighbor of my SIL used to try to woo her 6 year old. She was Jehovah and would invite my niece in and read her religious children’s books. My MIL asked her to stop. She continued. Finally, my MIL spoke to the neighbor’s husband and he stopped it. My niece! A little girl. Trying to take her away from her parents’ religious teachings. Unacceptable. This same niece used to get cards from evangelical friends when she was a teen inviting her to parties at the churches for teens. I just think it’s awful. People over 18 it’s fine, but people need to keep their “hands” off of minors in my opinion, and show more respect for the family they are raised in.
I will say my Mormon friends never did any such thing when we were young. They never tried to lead me away from my religion or talk about religion in a way that would try to solicit me. I find the Mormon religion appealing actually, because my experience is they are some of the nicest people I know, never made me uncomfortable, and they don’t drink or smoke and neither do I. It’s a nice environment for me.
I’ll also say that Mormons do tend to be a little clannish. Nothing wrong with it, but I think they do want their children to grow up surrounded primarily by like minded people and marry within the religion.
@ibstubro Figures. That’s disappointing. While I was living in Memphis the removed prayer from city council meetings. What’s interesting to me is how the south only now is starting to address these things.
@instubro @MikeA Just to confuse things, our President often starts speeches with a clergy person giving some sort of address to the crowd. The President is sworn in by clergy. I don’t know if there has been any accept ions to that? So, there are all sorts of inconsistencies in our country on the matter of church and state.
I’m not very bothered by some of the inconsistencies, but I do mind when it causes groups great discomfort or fear.