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stanleybmanly's avatar

Who here can consistently emerge from the holiday season without having exceeded their budget.

Asked by stanleybmanly (24153points) December 21st, 2015 from iPhone

I’ve NEVER pulled it off.

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janbb's avatar

That’s easy to do – just don’t make a budget! :-)

ucme's avatar

Me, we never budget, whatever is spent…is spent.

JLeslie's avatar

I do. I don’t usually have a lot of gifts to buy so it’s not very difficult.

canidmajor's avatar

For a long time now I’ve made gifts for people, not expensive as far as money goes, but a certain amount of work is involved. I spent, but not too much, on my kids, I’ve not been a part of the mass spending that goes with the holidays. I was raised in a household that got crazy with obligation, and I hate it. My family of origin thinks I am a cheap bitch, my friends think I am very thoughtful, as I try to tailor my gifts to their needs or interests.

So I consistently emerge without exceeding my budget. :-)

stanleybmanly's avatar

I swore this year that I would be sensible, but yesterday was “cookie decoration day”. The champagne evaporated like dew in the desert, and all propriety went with it. It’s hopeless.

tinyfaery's avatar

Me. My wife and I set a limit for each other and she only has to shop for her family. If there is a budget I don’t know about it. I don’t want to either.

Tropical_Willie's avatar

We start shopping in January, usually buy with a dollar limit per item/person.

Cruiser's avatar

Take up a hobby like ceramics like I did and for a couple of bucks in materials you can whip up some beautiful pottery that all will love.

Coloma's avatar

I did the major, shop til you drop, for 17 people, during the years of my marriage and raising my daughter. Now, for many years, the last 13 or so I have kept things to a minimum, only buying for my daughter, her boyfriend (s ) over the years, and one or two friends. I never budgeted and focused more on getting fun and customized gifts that I knew would be enjoyed. Now, since 2013 I am on an extremely tight budget and only gifting my daughter and her live in boyfriend.

I have made it clear to others that I want nothing, don’t need it, want it or have the space for erroneous stuff. I still have one friend that insists on buying me gifts and while I appreciate the sentiment, really, I find it rather annoying. When you explicitly ask not to be given a gift and someone does anyway, I find it disrespectful, personally. If I say I don’t want anything, I mean it! haha

She is very nice but her gifts are usually just stuff I do not want or need. The holidays are just not that important to me anymore and I really loved all the years of freedom from the obligation. I am with @canidmajor in that I loathe obligation. The holidays should be about communing with friends and family not buying and giving a bunch of stuff that just clutters up peoples spaces. haha

I will say though that my daughter gives me great things, one of my all time favorites is a cool, 3 foot tall, rectangular paper lamp with a multi-colored floodlight bulb with a remote control to customize the lighting features. I love that lamp and use it every-single-day. haha

jca's avatar

I don’t make a budget. I just buy what I have to buy, try to keep it reasonable, and go with the flow.

SQUEEKY2's avatar

I can say the wife and I do, we stopped buying for the adults a few years back, so all we do is the kids, and usually get that done pretty quick .
Hell the last couple of years Mrs Squeeky and I don’t even get each other anything, there is nothing we want and if there is we usually sometime during the year just go and get it.

ibstubro's avatar

I have no kids in the family to buy for, so I have no holiday spending.

Earthbound_Misfit's avatar

Budget? What is this ‘budget’ thing you speak of? I try to have a ballpark figure I want to spend. However, I shop throughout the year as I see things I think people will like. So if I actually added up what I have spent, I’d probably faint!

Wolf_girl100's avatar

I just don’t buy presents

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