Politics takes such an insane amount of soft skills. Even calling it “soft skills” is maybe a soft skill. Others may call it bullshitting or deception.
A number of politicians run on a tough-guy, straightforward public persona. Crafting that persona, and then saying exactly what the voting base wants to hear, takes a lot of nuance. When George W. Bush ran and won, his rhetoric was tailored to be exactly what the public wanted. But nobody who voted for him thought that about him- he seemed like a straight shooting, straight talking cowboy.
I think populist appeal is also why Obama says “folks” so often. But he’s also trading on highbrow appeal, a thinking man’s president. His way of doing populism is more about being just an everyday guy like you and me. Eating at Ben’s Chili Bowl, a DC landmark and greasy spoon, is a good example. He also uses a lot of accessible dry wit in interviews, which makes the viewers feel smart for laughing and included for getting it. Probably why John Stewart and Stephen Colbert are so popular, too. He’s pretty much a perfect candidate for broke, college-educated young people.
What scientist would go through all these crazy contortions? Take @LuckyGuy‘s example. He would probably make an amazing president, if you didn’t count voters into the equation. Blaming health problems on weight? Congratulations, you just pissed off the 69% of the electorate who are overweight, and especially the 31% who are obese. And good luck negotiating to pass a bill.
The other day I was joking that my main job skills are knowing how to talk to little old rich ladies and making really nice gift baskets. Working in a sales-heavy job has taught me how to switch gears and quickly build rapport with almost anyone, by bringing in completely different sides of my personality. Same with negotiating, or meeting people in a corporate setting. Conversations have little ripples and eddies underneath them.
It’s spilling over into my daily life. I’ve become comfortable making small talk with just about anyone on nearly any topic. If it’s not a familiar subject, I’m happy to ask them open-ended questions and learn a few things until we find common ground. For someone like me, engineering or other hard sciences are pretty much a foreign language. I’d imaging it’s a lot the same from the other side. It’s just a whole area that they don’t use very often.
I don’t even know how to change a tire, never mind do science!! Vote for me in 2040. :D