@chyna Oh… I get it. You are being a bully and body shaming.
No, you don’t get it because you got that all wrong.
@dammitjanetfromvegas I don’t think the fact that acceptance of being overweight has contributed to the problem.
What I am saying is not incumbent of whether fat people accept themselves and their fat or not, some apparently do. It is more to how society in general accepts it, when something gets accepted as the average, how could it not affect those who fall in the category? It could have been stinky feet, but that is not visual or something most would experience if they were not close or in the family of the person with stinky feet. One such acceptance is guys with droopy pants, in my younger days those doing it would have gotten clowned, ostracized, and in the wrong neighborhood, they would have been made to touch every fire hydrant on the street and left holding their teeth in their hands. You can’t say anything about fat people and why they are, because you get labeled a bully, and that is why people are too cowardly to even speak of it.
@ibstubro As near as I can tell, this tar-baby of a question is about fat women, and the reasons men should shame them?
Sorry, but it isn’t that type pf question.
If the question was written in standard English, it might be worth mentioning Renaissance women?
Doesn’t apply because that was then and this was now. Adding the fact that I do not believe women in general used deodorant, only the wealthy really had perfumes, bathing was probably not done daily, and the bra was not invented so surely they were not shackled down in those Spandex/Lycra contraptions. You can’t use them aside women of today unless you want to use all of what they were.
@katykit Since no one is forcing anyone to become overweight or obese, then the only sole contributor is the person who is overweight or obese.
If a person was born in a tight-knit community where 87% of the people had dwarfism and they did too, would they be as self-conscious of their height if they grew up in a tight-knit community where the average height was 6ft 1in? Unlike dwarfism overweight can be remedied, but if 60% or more people around you are fat, then you blend and don’t stick out, and if you don’t stick out, and no one cares that you are fat, one might not do what they could to drop the weight because they can’t enjoy tacos, mashed potatoes with giblet gravy, ice cream sundaes, etc. and be happy.
@Stinley The question is posed as an issue for people in general but then degenerates into a rant about fat women.
That is because you ignored the part about fat kids that you got it wrong.
Hateful in that it is full of hate. For women. I don’t understand why you feel like this or why you find it necessary to let us know you feel like this.
It would seem that way to people who are convicted by it because maybe they see themselves in it when they were not named. Are you going on record to say in the US being overweight has not harmed women more in the public eye than men?
@Coloma It’s a well known fact that half the people will re-gain the lost weight and more and it takes extreme dedication and diligence to maintain say a 40, 50, 60 lb. weight loss, let alone those that need to shed even more.
It is greatly because people try to do it all with wacky diets. If you make the body believe there is a famine going on, it will slow the metabolism, kick starting it back up once one falls off the wagon and started stuffing the hot dogs, buttered popcorn and Haagen-Dazs®. If they just eat what they like but eat it in moderation and get their bones moving, what weight they did not drop would be muscle (I know, I been there, done that).