Should I do it?
I was seeing my best friend cousin and for some reason he stop contacting me. Well she told me that he thought over our situation and notice how it can be a bad idea to be with me since i’m her best friend. She say he still likes me and all, but he’s just unsure. In a way I was thinking about moving on, but she been telling me to just try to communicate with him and give it one more try. Can you help me with this?
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My suggestion is to take your own advice and move on.
He is just using your relationship with your best friend as a cover. I have no idea what his actual reasoning is but there is more to it than he has let on.
Do you know, is he seeing someone else at this time?
The thing is when we were seeing each other, there were no sense of privacy because since she my best friend i tell her everything. It led to our family knowing about us. So it was hard to be with him and she say that was his reason as well.
”...he stop contacting me.”
He made the first step. You’re obviously young, move on.
“Seeing” someone is not a commitment in any way, and should not be treated as one.
Do whatever you want to do, but if he really wants to be with you he will. Just move on and let him go. If it’s meant to be it will be.
@Blasiangirl500 “The thing is when we were seeing each other, there were no sense of privacy”
It seems that he gave this matter some thought, and decided that he hadn’t been comfortable with the situation. He could have taken the wimp-approach and simply stopped contacting you or returning your calls and emails, but he did the right thing and was honest with you.
You have an issue with trusting each other. Your friend is unsure whether you will disclose privacy issues with the other.
Work on getting that trust and be honest.
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