What do you think about women approaching men...
Opposed to the traditional way (men approaching women)?
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It needs to be this way more often.
All three of the great loves in my life (I married two of them) were first approached by me :)
I’m ok with it. Share the rejection.
No, don’t do it!
Just kidding. Women should and do ask men out.
I’ve always been for the idea of people approaching people.
I should hope that any man would be very pleased.
I’ve been approaching men since about 1975.
Women need to be bold, if you want something, make it happen.
Carpe phallus. lol
I have always enjoyed it. It has not been often, but often enough!
Some women wait to be asked? haha! Most of my male friends would think it’s a dream come true to be hit on.
What is there to think about?
I’m in camp “please do”
If you want equality prepare for the crushing rejection too.
If it feels good, do it. I actually feel sorry for men. Traditionally, they have always had to be the ones to put their self-esteem on the line and to approach a woman. I think it’s great that more women now have the confidence to approach men they’re interested in.
It sure made life easier for me.
Most of the women who approach me are carrying sharp objects.
I am therefore skeptically cautious of this topic.
The thing is that as a teenager I didn’t have the first clue about approaching girls, and in truth very little changed about that into adulthood. The result was that virtually any success I had involving women came from “being picked.” It was so bad that frequently I was punished for not recognizing that I had been picked.
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Actually, @johnpowell, women get the “crushing rejection” thing. More women get turned down for jobs, schools, etc than men do. Assuming we don’t have experience with this is just silly.
I have always been agreeable with it. Wasn’t/isn’t that one of the things that Women’s Lib was all about??
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