What would you do if something important slipped out of your mind?
Has this happened to you? Out of say 10 important things you did say 7–8 things but forgot to complete one which was most important and now you look like a fool in front of others. How would you react in such situation?
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Gosh, it depends on how important. “Gosh, the funeral slipped my mind. Sry!”
@Dutchess_III‘s example is apropos. “Well, gosh, honey. I got the tux, and had it fitted and everything. Look, my shoes are even shined! I had the correct time for the ceremony, and I’m mostly sober, and my best man is right here at my side – and I made sure he still has the ring! I just forgot that the date for the wedding was yesterday. I got most of the things right; don’t make such a big thing out of it!”
Why I always text myself the grocery list….problem solved.
When my mom was in the early stages of Alzheiner’s, she started using an expression, a Southern one, that enabled her to gracefully get herself and others off the hook when she couldn’t remember a name. She would say, ever so sweetly, I can’t quite call your name.” That’s call , not recall.
I say the same thing now when I’ve momentarily forgotten the name of a movie or actor or whatever else has slipped my memory.
After all, contrary to popular belief, elephants don’t always remember everything.
Quickly search out someone else to blame.
I usually just admit it.
When it comess to names, if I’m introducing someone and I have forgotten one of the people’s names, I’ll introduce one party to the other and hope that they say their name. “This is my friend Mary from work.” Then I hope that the person says to Mary “Hi, Mary. I’m John.”
If I forgot it I don’t know to feel sheepish. It’s prolly in good company with all the other stuff I forgot. They’re all looking at each other with their arms crossed, rolling their eyes as and heaving sighs of long-suffering.
Meanwhile, my oblivious ass is singing along with the radio with the window down….
It happens to me all the time.
If it’s important, I backtrack and make it good. If it’s not all that important, I just continue on. No sense making everyone uncomfortable.
I don’t forget much, but I honestly blurt out, “Oh hell! I forgot all about that!” And try to make it up to them if I need to, and I can.
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