(NSFW) Why don't guys moan?

So we can hear the girls moaning…

(NSFW) They have lots of practice not being caught by themselves.

They don’t?

I actually chant.

And I’m pretty sure some guys moan. Have you slept with every guy?

I had a boyfriend who was a very loud moaner. It was embarrassing because he had roommates. Interestingly, he had a very tiny penis.

Maybe some macho types think it’s un-moanly.

I was never one of them.

In my experience, they do. You could just be with shy or pretty inhibited people.

The men I have sex with often moan.

Some of us do ;)

I love male moaning. But I am pretty gay…

This tends to be mostly something you find in younger men. And I think @RedDeerGuy1 has nailed it: they’re so used to masturbating in silence that they have sex the same way without even thinking about it. So if you want your man to make some noise, let him know.

It seems like you’re stereotyping people again. Moaning is not gender-specific. Men can moan if they want to, some prefer to do that, others don’t.

The difference between men and women’s moan is that generally men’s moan is not a reflection of fake orgasm (as ejaculation is prettt apparent), while women’s moan leaves a possible scent of fake orgasm.

Moaning is uncommon with shallow breathing, which is common for guys having sex.

Because they grunt instead.

I think vocalizing during sex comes down to how the people doing it feel, comfort wise. If they aren’t comfortable with their body, their surroundings, or the person they are doing it with they will be more quiet. Some might think of sex as dirty, or against their religion. Not something to be enjoyed.

I think sex is AWESOME. It’s definitely for enjoyment. I don’t usually moan per say during. But let’s just say the neighborhood knows when I’m done. And I dont give a dam. I have no problems with my image as a person who loves sex. We only live once…I don’t care how my neighbor looks at me when I’m kissing a girl goodbye in the morning. She has four kids. Although, I’m pretty sure the kids can hear too…That’s on the parent to me. She needs to get those kids some ear plugs.

I sing that “Oompah pah” song from Oliver…that’s how it goes

You guy isn’t moaning?

You’re doing it wrong.

@Irukandji

Holy preconceived notions Batman.

No wonder so many people are having problems in the sexual adventure/satisfaction department.

“Masturbating in silence?”

Talk dirty to yourself. It works.

@SecondHandStoke Holy lack of reading skills, jackass. I wasn’t talking about myself. I was talking about teenage boys who are worried about mom and dad in the next room over. A lot of younger guys are in this situation and carry the habit over to their sex lives. I didn’t say it was a good thing or a universal thing. Just a possible explanation for why some guys don’t moan when they’re having sex with a woman.

^Apologies.

I should have said “Regarding @Irukandji ‘s comment.

My comment was not directed at you.