Men are already subjugated. The world was built on the backs of ordinary men.Their enslavement, or servitude was responsible for almost every construction project before a hundred years ago.
I meant no disrespect @Mariah, and I get what you’re saying in regards to the question. I know typed word is ambiguous, but I feel a disdain for men in many threads in Fluther. When a question finally asks, why are divorce’s rates higher. It felt like most opined, ’ well, women aren’t imprisoned by men making money, and men keeping them from education anymore. ’ That IS the way of some countries, although religion is to blame here in the US.
In America, I have overheard older women telling young girls about how to use men, or manipulate them to their will. At a dinner party once, I heard a grandmother tell a 16 year old girl, that she was ‘sitting on a gold mine.’ She went on to teach this young woman how to ‘use’ her goldmine (vagina)to her advantage. Disturbing conversation, I’ve overheard several times by different women.
If women want to ‘get ahead’ in life, they have to admit these tactics are counter productive. And fully admit they take advantage of men, just as much as men take advantage of their natural differences.
IMO, women act one way, then expect to be treated another quite often. There again, is the direct correlation between the wealthy having less divorce rates. They have prenuptial agreements. So the woman can’t seduce the man for his money, and then divorce him for half his belongings. Michael Jordan’s wife got HALF his stuff. ‘Behind every great man, there is a great woman.’ I agree. But his wife didn’t win 6 championships. If they had a pre nup, she would still be there.
No one is saying women can’t be bad wives alright. They’re completely omitting ANY wrong doing by women.
To be divorced, you have to have been married. To get married, you enter a ‘relationship. ’ With understanding of equality and respect.
Most in this thread mention inequality, and no respect for the terrible creature that is man.
This question was regarding new divorce statistics, and yes women earn more money now, but are they less manipulative? No. Men still don’t value their wives either in some cases. (Cases where women should move on.) But I have to stick up for men here. Because otherwise it’s been women overcoming the oppression of men, as the main answer. And that just isn’t a realistic majority reason…