@stanleybmanly From where I sit, the only comment I can make on this issue is that there is a decided and precipitous rise anxiety over the ability to match levels of income to perceived needs.
Even if the ”need” is not real, say Larry LuchmeaI perceived he need a Maybach Benz for himself and his spouse, and I need a 6,500 sq. ft. home, a pair of jet skis and a motorcoach, even if he purchased some of the items outright, there is still maintenance cost connected to them. If he could afford them but not out of an abundance of excess, then if he got hurt, or was someway unable to work for 6–18 months he could be in danger of losing some or all of them because they come from his income, even more so if that income included a lot of overtime. If he would have invested the money that went towards those toys” and purchased a REO fourplex that needed some SPT (_spit polish and paint) and put leasers in there, then his money would be earning him money and not costing him money. If he repeated that he could purchase the “toys” and have those leasing basically paying the note and maintenance. If he chooses to still buy at the thrifts or drive an older modest car, it is not because it is his only choice.
@YARNLADY Any amount can be comfortable if you refuse to spend more than you make
I have said that to many people I know who gripe about how much they have to pay for things or that their check is basically spent before they get it. If one made the choice to live as close to the minimum in keeping them alive and relatively healthy I think people in the US could make on quite well on 25k a year. However, no one wants to really live without the “creature comforts” or in areas where housing is that cheap.
However, even then there is a minimum amount one has to have. In this area you must have running water, garbage, and gas service or they will red tag your home and bar you entrance. That means if you are buying or renting a home where you have to cover all of that, some of that is out of your control, the garbage company sets a price you have to pay and you cannot refuse because of city or county ordinances. You could decide to take a shower only twice a week, or if you have a job that gets you grimy, a 10 min shower a day. Even that adds up to a minimum amount as you have to pay per gallon what the water company set, that cost times the number of gallons your shower takes for a 10 min shower times how many times a week you did, and that is one’s very minimum water usage, that is if you never washed the cars or dishes at home, never bath the pets, or used a laundromat to do your clothes. Even if you never fired up the TV, ran the AC, etc. the fridge and lights in the evening will rack up a minimum cost. People could live off way less than they do, some just don’t want to make that deep of a sacrifice.
Once our income improved enough, I quit work to become a stay at home mom with our new baby. (he is now the father of two boys) Over time, we have reached the point where we now own two houses and four cars and we provide substantial financial help to 9 other people. My husband’s income has been in the six figures for several years now.
Would you say for your family you have passed that tipping point and shattered the ”C-note Ceiling”? Right now if you and your husband were injured in a sight-seeing plane crash and was laid up for the next eight months would the expenses take care of themselves without cannibalizing the savings or retirement?