[NSFW] Women, how many times a day is too much?

A recent thread got me thinking, for those women who have a spouse with a high libido what is too much intimate contact? Is it distinguished by if clothes come off, if it leads to penetration, if it is just groping and caressing do you count that? What if you were just face sucked and fondled 12–23 times a day and it may or may not lead to penetrative sex, too much, OK, or leaves you wondering is there more, etc.?