I think people overlook, or can’t discuss fairly, how it feels to be a white male of any political leaning right now. I’m not saying it’s right, or wrong for that matter, just not acknowledged or discussed intelligently. It’s not discussed because it’s a minefield of talking points.
Right now every group feels they are under attack and many loudly proclaim that others are either with them, or part of the problem. It’s appealing to fight against something, it gives us meaning, it gives goals, and heroes. It certainly beats standing for nothing.
For 90% of those causes, white men should literally say nothing counter to the message or tactics of any group without being labeled in support of their attackers or oppressors. Comments are not judged on merit, we should just sit down. It’s a weird time.
I know, poor white guys, right? Or “to the privileged, equality feels like oppression”... I hear you. I’m mostly with you on that. It just doesn’t feel like a real solution to just shift blame around.
So imagine I addressed a group of young black men and said something that really isn’t controversial like “nothing keeps a young man out of trouble like a father who takes an active role in his son’s life.”... as a white man the feeling is I should just keep that to myself. That would probably catch a lot of negative press right now.
Imagine I’m scrapping money together for a house. If I move to a minority neighborhood, I’m gentrifying. Regardless of income, regardless of position in the world. I’m gentrifying because I’m white. I’m moving the character of a place out and replacing with my bland whiteness. My place is the suburbs or the expensive neighborhoods.
Everyone wants to feel they’re fighting against something, and I think that’s resulting in candidates like Trump and most of the other frontrunners in this year’s Republican primaries. People don’t want to be blamed or silenced and they are promised a voice. Trump also promises that he’ll find the people that are “really the problem” and make sure they aren’t around any more.
Not sure who we’d blame after that, but maybe placing blame got us here in the first place.