@stanleybmanly
I think his kids genuinely both love and respect him. Prior to all this political stuff, I’ve heard interviews with them where they were asked numerous questions about how he was as a father and what it was like growing up filthy rich.
I’ve mentioned this before and that’s at least one thing he did right. Of course Ivanna was also an excellent mother as well as partner. But if one is married to a hard driving businessman who always put business first, neglecting or ignoring his kids, no amount of persuasion or nagging on her part could really change that much.
But that clearly that wasn’t the case. They all said that he had a standing order with his secretary that if any one of them called, to put their call right through. Didn’t matter even if he was in a high power meeting with whomever, a call from one of his kids took precedence.
And this was even in the early days when they were quite young and he was just starting out and didn’t have even a fraction of the clout he would later have. It didn’t matter if some high up mucky muck didn’t like the interruption. Too bad.
I think that something like that sends a powerful message to a young child that they are very loved by their parent and what matters to them matters to him no matter how small and seemingly unimportant to the world. I think that it’s more than just a gesture.
I don’t think it’s either an accident or coincidence that you didn’t see any of the Trump kids being tabloid fodder for their drugging, drinking or sexual promiscuity like others who come to mind (cough cough, Hilton etc.).
They also recounted how they didn’t just get everything they wanted just bought for them. They were expected to work for things so they didn’t grow up like spoiled entitled rich brats.
Interestingly, the oldest, Donny, said that they were “spoiled” with the best education that money could buy. But there were expectations attached that they do their part, study hard and keep up their grades. And apparently they all did.
I suppose they had the money to pay others to write their term papers for them (as Paris Hilton did) but apparently they actually preferred to learn something and took their parents admonitions seriously.
I’m not trying to canonize the guy but I do make a clear distinction between the political and the personal family life. Just because someone is an egomaniacal blowhard politically and business-wise doesn’t mean that he can’t possibly be an above average parent.
I think that he and Ivanna (regardless of their differences and marital problems) were both excellent parents who did their best to put their kids first and raised them to be responsible productive citizens.
As a teacher, I could usually tell in fairly short order which of the kids in my classes were from dysfunctual homes or not. It reflects in their behavior and attitudes.
I know that I and many others are pretty mystified by how such an insufferable public character like him could possibly be a decent parent but the evidence speaks for itself.
You can see the evidence of both good as well as crappy parenting all over the entertainment as well as the political spectrum.