Are you in a circle of attention?

I try to avoid it. I am very good at saying “NO,” too.

No, the exact opposite!

No, I don’t think so. I’m not sure, but I don’t think I have such a circle.

As it turns out, what function does fluther serve for the participants here?

Nope. I am am a rock I am an island. haha
I have one good and true friend and my daughter and I are very close but I don’t do drama and I don’t absorb other peoples angst and I hate gossip.
I am a very genuine sort and life is too short for false friendships.
I have been many times by others that you always know exactly where you stand with me, no pretense, no fakery.

No, but I wish I did. In the past my circle consisted of supportive friends, some were just very successful, others were active, some depressed there was a mix. I didn’t feel so alienated. I rarely look to see what I can get out of or from people however, I do try to stick to compassionate and caring people, with a few who will challenge me.