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From someone who comes from a non-Halloween celebrating place: How do you actually celebrate Halloween?

Asked by Sneki95 (7017points) October 17th, 2016

I only know it’s at the 31st of October and you carve pumpkins. I’ve a bunch of pumpkins in the backyard, but my mom wouldn’t let me carve them.

How do you celebrate Halloween? How does it look like at your place? Are there any special customs in your area, but not in other places? What is your best Halloween experience, and what do you think about the whole holiday?

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ragingloli's avatar

You snatch the brats that are making a ruckus in front of your door, and turn them into skeletons.

Sneki95's avatar

@ragingloli Do you keep the skeletons as a decoration for the next year?

ucme's avatar

It was a fun night when my kids were younger, i’d be their companion/bodyguard on trick or treat duty.
Now, other than dressing the house staff as extras from the Thriller video & ordering them to moonwalk as they serve tea & scones, well…it’s just like any other night really.

ragingloli's avatar

@Sneki95
I pile them up in my creepy cellar

Sneki95's avatar

@ucme We do a trick or treat here in Christmas, but I never went there. Must be fun, dressing up in the costumes and going down the street. :D

ARE_you_kidding_me's avatar

We come out and meet our neighbors, give the kids candy, comment on the awesome costumes, let teenagers roll teachers yards while they come out and give the rollers cider…
Still very much alive here.

nutallergy's avatar

We decorate our house both inside and out on the October 1. We watch scary movies all month.
We hand out candy the night before and the night of Halloween. Our city has two nights for Trick-or-treating.
We stuff ourselves with Reese’s peanut butter cups.

It’s my favorite holiday. :)

Seek's avatar

I adore Halloween. Love scary movies and trick-or-treating and costumes.

I’ve only missed a couple of years of trick-or-treating in my life, and even then I helped out at “fall festivals” or whatever.

A lot of the churches around here do Hallowe’en alternatives, like a friendly fall festival, with hayrides and apple-bobbing. The ironic thing is that Hallowe’en began as a Christian celebration alternative to pagan autumn harvest festivals, so the Christians who don’t trick-or-treat are actually closer to the pagan holiday than those of us glorifying ghosts and demons.

The “best” church alternative is Judgement House. I guess it’s a travelling show or something, but it’s basically a scaremongering tactic used by churches to “show what the horrors of hell will be like”. I have never gone, but the photos look incredibly lame.

This is the first year my kid is getting into the spooky. In the past he’s dressed as video game characters and stuff like that. This year he’s going as the Grim Reaper. I’m going to complement him by dressing as a disembodied soul, and he’ll drag me around on a chain.

I’m really stoked about this year.

ucme's avatar

@Sneki95 Oh I never did dress up, just lurked in the shadows making sure no fucking brats stole my kids bounty. I am however tempted to dress up as an axe wielding clown this year, y’know…just to blend in :D

Sneki95's avatar

@Seek @nutallergy That sounds cool.

Here in Serbia, there are trick or treaters, but some people never let them in, with an explanation that such custom is not Christian.

Judgement House seems like a good idea, if you include religious horror. From what I’ve seen on their site, it seems like a praying party meh

@ucme Hehe :D

Seek's avatar

@Sneki95 – Yeah, haunted houses are fun, but they’re meant to be. The ones that are a not-so-hidden lesson are.. .well… meh, as you said.

jca's avatar

I go trick or treating with my daughter.

Before she was born, I didn’t do much. The area my house is in is a spot where people would walk right by it and not stop, so after a few years of that I stopped buying candy.

Espiritus_Corvus's avatar

Presently, I’m insinuated into a cultural amalgam of African, French and Catholic traditions in apparently equal proportions, but assimilated haphazardly by the native population. They speak a bastardization of the French language with some Spanish and English attributes called Creole which is almost unrecognizable to the French and everybody else off these islands.

The idea of the Catholic “All Souls Day” has been taken in strongly, but the eve of it, with Celtic and medieval root traditions of bon fire celebrations and of peasants going door-to-door to the houses of the wealthy for food in exchange for prayers for the rich, is not. The streets of Fort-de-France will be quiet and empty by dark except for the jennès who traditionally own the sultry night. It will be like every other night here on this flowered isle.

The next day, however, there will be crowds of people in parade to the cemeteries to honor their deceased and pray for their souls. Some of these will be in the costume and have painted faces like sòsyè, the traditional folk medicine healers of both sexes who were believed—and still are by some—responsible for the body and soul of their people. There will be drumbeats and other loud noises from musical instruments to ward off the evil spirits. There will be a larger than normal attendance at the churches.

Espiritus_Corvus's avatar

On the other hand, there will be quite an elaborate adults-only costume party held in the lounge of my hotel which caters mostly to French tourist couples.

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

I’m an adult with no biological children, but Halloween is my favorite holiday and I still celebrate wholeheartedly, though a lot of people sort of “grow out” of really celebrating it and only pass out candy to the kids. We don’t celebrate exclusively on October 31, but more so the days leading up to it, by visiting pumpkin patches to get pumpkins and corn stalks, carving pumpkins, decorating the house. We go on hayrides or visit haunted houses (I haven’t done that in a long time, my husband doesn’t care for them), and spend time shopping for or making costumes. I love making my costume, it’s one of my favorite parts. We try to attend a costume party and some years we throw them at our house. Then, on Halloween, we pass out candy to the trick-or-treaters. Sometimes I will go trick or treating with the kids in my life, but I prefer passing out candy, because I think the little kids are cute.

Call_Me_Jay's avatar

My best friend’s birthday is near Halloween, so they’ve turned it into a big annual Halloween party. The kids carve pumpkins and the adults drink and everybody eats chili and cornbread and tons of roasted pumpkin seeds. Usually that’s a few days before Halloween.

On Halloween night I sit on the front steps with my neighbors and pass out candy and tell every kid they have a FANTASTIC costume!

This reminds me I need to buy candles tomorrow for the pumpkins. They’re hard to find on Halloween.

JLeslie's avatar

I don’t decorate usually. Some years I carve a pumpkin and toast and salt the seeds, but I rarely bother.

If I live in a place that will have kids truck or treating I buy candy to give out. This year I don’t live in a place that will have kids going around. There are lots of parties during October with a Halloween theme, and costumes. I have gone to any. Here we have live music and dancing in the town squares every night, so I assume on the 31st people who go to listen and dance will be dressed up.

When I lived in Boca Raton, FL the mall stores gave out candy, and the mall was full Halloween eve of children and parents dressed up and collecting candy from stores. Many employees dressed up too.

Some communities have Halloween parties for kids in their recreation centers. Other communities the kids go door to door. Door to door is still done all over America as far as I know.

Last year I lived in a community of ten houses and one neighbor put together a hay ride for the kids pulled by a golf cart and took them to all the houses and a nearby community also. It was very cute.

MollyMcGuire's avatar

We don’t “celebrate” halloween. It’s just a day the kids dress up and get lots of candy and hear and tell ghost stories. Nothing is celebrated.

Mimishu1995's avatar

I come from a country knowing no Halloween too. And to this day I still don’t know what a Halloween day actually looks like. There is still celebration, but not in the way that you think. No trick or treat here, just a bunch of people dressing up and gathering around for parties. Yup, Halloween is just another day for parties, just like the days of other popular Western celebrations Most Western celebrations are unheard of here anyway. There are parties at schools, but I have never attended any of them, mostly because late October – late December is the time of work and exams, and I’m too deep in the sea of work to ever think about going out :(

So, I’m thinking of celebrating Halloween here on Fluther, maybe with a game thread or something :p

rojo's avatar

I hand out candy to the kids that come by, sometimes commenting on their costumes and hoping that there will be some leftover candybars at nights end.

Sneki95's avatar

@Call_Me_Jay You gave me an idea. Roasted seeds are delicious, hopefully I won’t forget to ask mom to make those when we clean our pumpkins. Good luck with finding candles! :D

@JLeslie That was very sweet of your neighbour. :)

@Mimishu1995 That sounds like a nice idea! Us Jellies that don’t celebrate it can get a glimpse of it, and the Jellies that do can share the magic with us. _. If you get any ideas, fell free to tell me, I’ll be glad to participate.

Soubresaut's avatar

When I was growing up, my neighborhood had a ton of children (a fluther of children?), and so Halloween was an event. Most of the houses were decked with giant polyester cobwebs, orange lights, freshly carved jack-o-lanterns, lawn full of styrofoam tombstones, and just any other miscellaneous decorations that indicated witches or spook or an abandoned-decrepit house. My family had two giant spiders we’d hang in cobwebs that surrounded the walkway so people had to walk through the spider nest to get to the door.

And trick-or-treating was huge. My neighborhood doesn’t have streetlights, but with the number of families and groups of friends out with their flashlights, we might as well have. And of course, we all knew the house that handed out regular sized Hershey’s bars, and the house that had the best decorations (with a fog machine and everything, and the owners had decorated the foyer as well, and dressed up, so it was completely like an old haunted house.)

My mom is a fantastic sewer, and so every year my sister and I would pick out who we wanted to be for Halloween, and we’d scour the fabric store patterns with my mom for something close to what we wanted, and she’d talk us through how we could change it to make it exactly right. Then we’d pick out fabrics. There was a whole legion of parents at my elementary school who would sew the costumes, and so often we’d be in the pattern section with a bunch of other kids also combing through the giant pattern books.

My school had a carnival—every class would come up with a booth they wanted to do. Some of the classes had traditional booths—the seventh graders had the haunted house (in the breakout space just outside their classroom.) The fifth graders had the Halloween maze (they began collecting giant cardboard boxes at the beginning of the year to have enough to string together.) Etc. Every year the carnival started with the whole school gathering on the field in a large circle for the costume parade. And our principal would be out there with a megaphone and call out themes (“all the witches,” or “all the Hogwarts students,” or “all the household objects,”—we had students dress up as everything imaginable. Two kids in my class (one was my best friend) would have a friendly joust about who’s costume was the oddest—and one year one showed up as a washing machine on the spin cycle, and the other as a dirty basket of laundry!

Now, the fabric stores are barely hanging in there with their ever dwindling niche market; my former elementary school apparently no longer does the parade or the carnival; and the neighborhood kids have all grown up, so it’s a bit of a ghost town on Halloween. We don’t bother with candy or decorations, because there aren’t enough kids to get through one bag.

Of course, that’s not the case everywhere. Other neighborhoods have younger families, and so many of the kids still in this neighborhood join their friends elsewhere. And just last year I worked with a guy whose family was farther down south, but got about 1500 trick-or-treaters in a night, and go all-out with decorations.

Mmm reminiscing is nice.

rojo's avatar

We moved into the neighborhood a couple of months ago. Interested to see what the ghoulish turnout is here. Most of my immediate neighbors have grown children but there are a couple of families with children and I don’t know about the other blocks so we will see.

Our previous neighborhood was similar but every halloween we would have a surfeit of children usually station wagon/truck loads from other neighborhoods. Not sure if word got out that we had candy and few kids or what but I would see hundreds on All Hallows Eve in a neighborhood that had three on our block and no more than a dozen in the adjacent ones.

Sneki95's avatar

@Espiritus_Corvus. Sure was, enjoyed reading it.

Call_Me_Jay's avatar

For Snek & Mimi and all our other overseas friend I will be posting Halloween pics in this thread.

My neighbor’s porch

Another pic

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