NSFW: Guys, how do you know she's not faking it?

When she scratches the hell out of your back and bites your ears off.

Nah, @kritiper, sorry, but she probably knows how to fake that, too. The good news is that most of the women (that I know, and I know a lot!) rarely fake it, so you’re probably good most of the time. :-D

^^^ What she said.

Don’t know, don’t care.

Why don’t you care?

Why fake it? It’s easier, faster, and more fun to just make it happen.

@Dutchess_III

Because my ego or sense of manhood doesn’t hang on whether or not she’s faking it.

Does any of it hang on whether or not she has an orgasm too?

Clearly. If she doesn’t I am a failure as a man.

Do you really think that?

Can’t fake the sizeable wet spot on my bed.

I seriously doubt if there is any way of knowing whether she has “arrived”. But I do know it’s well worth the time and effort to discover what helps her on the journey. There is so much variety in “what it takes” among women that we men are usually pretty clueless. Let them teach you.

@cookieman wet spot does not = female orgasm.

GA @stanleybmanly.

Since you are fishing for some ego stroke here I’m not going to dignify this silliness with an answer. Any answer that is along the lines of “we can tell” will be met by a “no you can’t” Pointless.

I still think my answer was the best…

It’s not that I don’t care or not – sure, I would want every and any woman I am with to have an orgasm and as much pleasure as possible.

But it’s not really in my control. Women, you know your bodies and triggers better than I ever will. You know how to move and twist and push to get the best feeling on any given day or night. Sure, I might have a clue what turns your on sometimes but definitely not always every time.

I was with one woman who was so in touch with what triggered her orgasm, that I felt that I was a flesh and blood vibrator attached to a human body. She was doing it all to her own rhythm and pace, and I was there as the attachment.

Other women have included me in their fun :-)

So I’m sort of half way between “don’t know don’t care” and “I’ll do my best but in the end, you’re going to get off in your own way”

@Dutchess_III If they have their ear to your heart they should be able to tell. Usually, your heart rate increases when you orgasm. During sex their ear usually isn’t there, but if they are just using fingers to make it all happen they might have their head resting on your chest.

I don’t think there is any reason to fake it. If a girl doesn’t care about climaxing, I don’t think the guy cares if she does.

My husband would know. I get flushed when I have an orgasm. It happens every time. It happens to about 75% of women. So if the lady is flushed in the face, chest, or even over more of her body, you did good. A woman’s genitals will also quite likely become a darker colour when she orgasms too.

And as @JL said, her heart rate will increase.

Personally I’m too lazy and greedy to fake it. I like having sex and I like having orgasms. To fake cheats me. A

I suppose I don’t know %100 . I only care if it’s a girl who is, or I want to be my girlfriend.

In that case I communicate that faking is a form of lying. Trust is important to me. There’s really no good relationship without trust. Faking it is a disservice to both parties.

If I’m with a girl for a moment(just a quickie, and I’ll never see her again) it’s not important to me.

If it’s a one night thing, I might make sure she’s good before I leave. But I usually try to sneak out,so I can enjoy the rest of my night.

@JLeslie Ha ha! They’re going to start selling glue-on stethoscopes at sex shops, with really, REALLY long ear cords!

OhMiBod is working on a vibrator that synchs with your smart watch to vibrate based on your heart rate.

Men who are lefties are more likely to be aware of this.

I’m trying, I’m really trying but I just can’t unsee the vision of @Dutchess_III faking it. I will now have to drink heavily.

oh! God!

Yeah. thank you for that.

Ugh.

I don’t want what she’s having. Whatever that is, not that.