@Esedess Well, it’s a long story.
I was a medical research coordinator during the last years of my nursing career. It was good, interesting work, but it was primarily a desk job and I was getting way out of shape. One day, I had a heart attack. Not a bad one, but a good shot over the bow. I decided to change my life. I started going to the gym to build strength, then started cycling-camping, kayaking-camping, surfing, scuba diving—all the things that I had done in my twenties and had fallen by the wayside in a settled, twenty year marriage to a good, but very civilized woman.. She was a nurse anesthetist, but here career was all she wanted to pursue in life. I was developing other ideas.
One day this old man I knew from down at the marina I used to dip my kayak in sold me a 22-foot Catalina sloop for $500 bucks on the spot. I hadn’t sailed since I was in my teens, and hadn’t even thought about it, but this boat was worth about a grand a foot. I couldn’t believe it. It was about 30 years old, but he had kept it in pristine condition. He was arthritic and couldn’t raise the sails anymore and his wife was too ill to come down and drink coffee with him on his beloved sloop, so he just polished it all day long. Eventually, he came to the conclusion that his wife needed him at home 24/7 and since I talked to him almost everyday, he just handed it over to me and got it over with as painlessly as possible.
I took sailing lessons with it, eventually go a sixpack captain’s license good for 100 tons displacement, got ISA certs, PADI and NAUI certs as a divemaster, took the boat out on charters to help pay for the upkeep, took people diving, spent almost all my time on it. Soon, I traded up to a loaded Morgan 33 and couple of years later traded up to a Hunter 42, fully loaded with radar, fish finders, EPIRB, mast, deck and underwater hull lights, Yanmar diesel inboard, el gernerators, solar and wind backup, HVAC, internet and satcoms, full galley—the whole nine yards.
In the meantime I got an amicable divorce and moved into a townhouse near the marina. But I knew I couldn’t afford both the townhouse and the boat—boats will eat you alive—and I knew after that heart attack, my days were numbered. So, what the hell, I chose the boat over dying at my desk. I began taking time off to do some deep water sailing to Mexico, the Bahamas Jamaica and got some good blue water experience and soon it was 2012 and the primary investigator, my doc that I’d working with for ten years decided to retire.
I counted up my assets, sold everything off, took my cat, toothbrush and a couple of laptops with me to the boat and just took off for Mexico. I had transferred my music, book and film collection to a couple of terabyte harddrives months before this.
I really didn’t thing I wasn’t coming back, but the Newtown thing kinda set off an existential crisis, I suppose, and when I pulled out of Celstun, I just headed south to the Lesser Antilles instead of back to Key West. Kind of just set my sails and rudder another direction without worrying about what came next. It was a good decision. Life is good out here and the blue water sailing community is a tight tribe. Just check their blogs on the net.
You might say that I was saved by a heart attack.
Sorry about the length. Ha. I type really fast.