^^That is sound advice by @johnpowell. A talk with a doctor or an RN working oncology would be most informative. I wish I had spent more time in oncology so I could give you a more authoritative response, Jeruba. But I didn’t and it was long ago.
Be careful when going to the Johns Hopkins website. There has been some malicious internet mimicry . Johns Hopkins is an excellent source of health information. Just be sure the url begins with “https://www.jhu.edu” and the grammar and spelling on the pages are impeccably correct.
What you’re talking about is called the chemotherapy diet in medical circles. It is a general recommendation of foods appropriate for the chemo patient, but it is a loose guideline because each person has different dietary requirements. The important thing is nutrition intake, period. For the chemo patient, gone are all the dietary restrictions recommended to the healthy patient. Often, getting them to eat something, anything is a major victory.
Here are some webpages concerning the chemotherapy diet from the Mayo Clinic, WebMD and other authoritative sources along with a book recommendation:
From Cancer Research UK: What should I eat during chemotherapy?
From Chemotherapy-dot-com: Eating Well During Chemotherapy
From WebMD; scroll down a bit to: Starting Chemotherapy: 15 Nutrition Tips
From the Mayo:
Sound nutritional advice when dealing with cancer
Tips for safe food choices during cancer treatment
A few treatments into the regime, patients often lose their apetites entirely. They are often nauseous and all foods taste terrible. This is a battle for the caregiver. And this is where a conversation with an RN who has been a primary caregiver for chemo patients would be invaluable to you. You find these nurses in oncology departments in hospitals, in oncology clinics, at homecare agencies, and at your local hospice.
More from the Mayo:
Eating during cancer treatment: Tips to make food tastier
No appetite? How to get nutrition during cancer treatment
Can taking ginger for nausea reduce or eliminate nausea and vomiting caused by chemotherapy?
Here are a selection of books on chemotherapy diets and homecare from Amazon (scroll down to the bottom to see a line of books). Rather than get involved in the crapshoot of choosing one, I would ask an oncology doctor or RN for a recommendation.
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