Should I confront him once and for all?

It sounds like you want to break up with him, and are asking for permission to do that. You don’t need anyone’s permission or support to break up with someone you don’t want to be dating. Just do it. Or don’t. This is your choice.

If you have questions about why he would do specific things, it makes more sense for you to ask him than to ask strangers on the internet, who don’t know either of you. But I would advise that you ask him calmly and reasonably. Your details as written make it sound like you are very angry and upset, and that’s not conducive to getting a straightforward response from him. He will likely only get defensive and refuse to answer.

you didn’t like the answers you got elsewhere? I answered you there

I’m with @dappled_leaves and @BellaB We already told you our opinions, now it’s just time you take some sort of action. Talk to him, drop in on him, break up with him, but do something, not just complain about how upset you still are. Take action, for better or for worse!

As the others said, break up with him if that’s what you want. You don’t need a reason. Looking for reasons is jamming you from freely choosing what you want (based on what you want, not on any reasons).

I don’t follow the reason you gave. Sounds like he was slow to respond to a text and didn’t acknowledge your request properly, but that you are making that mean things. You probably have other reasons but that one, as you wrote it, makes no sense to me.

If your decision really hinges on whether you’re right or not about him cheating on you, then confront him about it being honest and taking responsibility for your unproven suspicions/fears, and/or find out if he’s cheating.

Yes confront him, this sounds suspicious. If he is with another woman, you are better off without him. I wish you luck.

Your very similar question here has some great answers.
I would just show up on a Saturday morning and see what is going on. You have already wasted 3 years on this guy.

@Coloma, what really is eating my brains out is the fact that he graduates at the end of february right, ok and since he is leaving back to his hometown around march, maybe he is backing away or giving me the cold shoulder cause he does not see us going anywhere? or sees no future for a reason or another, this are just my Honest Supositions. I don’t know.

@chyna Yes, I posted that thread, I’m sorry to sound so desperate, I just need your honests opinions and a little push to do what I have to do, I know life is short and I am tired of crying my eyes out, especially today, I get like this when I am going to get my period. its taking a toll on my mental health.

@Zaku Deep down I would not like to break up, I would be a hypocrite if I said that, I wish I can talk things. I really would, but my doubts and fears with this man are just big, I don’t know if its me and I have huge insecurity issues, or something.all I can say is that my last relatonship felt real and there was more communication and it was natural for crying out loud (now my ex was not studying medicine or anything ,his career was easier I understand that as well) but in comparison to this one which just gives me a weird Vibe.Maybe I have been living a lie, or have seen things and decided to ignore them.

@alexbelle To parrot an old song, breaking is hard to do but all the things you mention do not sound good. First and foremost of all your communication and his is horrible. You don’t like his response so you give him the silent treatment instead of just straight up asking him what’s up and sharing your concerns. What do you mean he is 37 and “graduating.” graduating what, medicine?

Now you are telling us that he is planning on moving back to his hometown in March. Yep, forget the worries about cheating, it does sound like he is distancing because he is about to leave and a lot of immature people play these games instead of just being honest and breaking up. Tell you what…call him now, tonight, and ASK him, directly what is up. Write down what you want to say and say it.

You will know by the end of the conversation whether or not there is any hope. You are the only one that can address this, all we can do is advise you based on the information you present which we have done. We’ve gone as far as we can with this.
If it’s over then you can report back and we will offer our support but it’s time you take charge of things and stop with all the wondering and asking impossible questions.

Just do it!

@alexbelle Ok, so as Coloma wrote, I think you should have a serious direct conversation that addresses all of your needs.

First list everything you need to know to be happy and secure about the relationship. Is he cheating? Is he looking to withdraw from the relationship? What can you count on doing together? Whatever else would clear it all up for you. Then ask all those things, letting him know you really need those answers. You can use that as a measure for whether the relationship is working for you or not. If he won’t answer or doesn’t give believable answers, and you’ve told him you need those answers, you can call that a fail. If you tell someone you have a serious need to have some information, and they won’t give you that information, that’s them not giving you what you need.

@Zaku You said it better than I.

I would just show up at his place. He should be happy to see you. I wrote the same thing on the other thread when you asked the same question a few days ago.

It sounds like you have suspicions about the relationship already.

What do you want? Do you want to end it? What if he just planned on going out and partying with local friends this weekend. Maybe he has another. Maybe he is embarrassed about his digs. So many possibilities.

Go show up on Saturday, maybe nothing will happen, maybe it will be the final straw. You will not know until you open that box.

Schrödinger’s cat…......

This is rude even if he did have a good excuse. Sounds like he has someone else or your just not that important to him. With a text like that you should just reply “don’t bother”.