How to seduce someone younger to you.
I want to seduce a person who is younger than I am. I am a woman and want to seduce someone. Tell me some bright ideas to do it.
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The best way is to make them like you for who you are. Be kind and considerate, and don’t freak them out by talking about sex right in the beginning.
Ok but how to start about it.
@mimishu1995 thats what I don’t want to mention about sex I don’t want to loose respect when he rejects or if he doesn’t like it.
Ages and culture/setting and existing relationships involved? Oh, and desired relationship scope/type?
@zaku I don’t understand what you said.
@zaku I am almost 10 years elder. I am married want to get impregnated.
@Shirley29 the word “seduce” already contains sexual innuendo, and already means wanting to get someone to desire sex with you.
Now you understand.
Yes I understand that. But give me ideas to seduce.
If this sexual encounter is purely for the sake of becoming pregnant there is no need for any “seduction.” Have some wine and just get down to it. Why the romantic game playing, that’s just weird.
Does this younger person know he is about to be used as a sperm donor or are you trying to deceive him? Seducing implies manipulating someone into sex involving trickery.
We haven’t said him yet. Yes exactly I don’t want to seduce in a romantic way I just want to know if he is interested that way I want to seduce. Instead of talk about our problems just seduce him.
You don’t sound like you understand, really.
I need ideas to break the ice and let him by himself approach to me. give ideas so that he gets attracted to me.
Then read my first response.
What country are you in, and what sort of relationship do you already have with this person. Also, does your husband know and agree to this idea?
I’m asking because without knowing these and perhaps some other details, it could be hard to give good advice.
In my own situation, I know people who might be great intermediates to ask a person such a question or at least some starting questions.
In a place where people have certain ideas around sexuality, there could be many potential pitfalls and reasons to be careful.
If the husband doesn’t know, then you’d be asking the donor to possibly be getting into a sticky situation.
In a very casual situation, where your main concern is just how to effectively seduce a younger man, then that’s mainly about figuring out how he is about sex, and then just not weird-ing him out, and being appealing.
On the practical side, it would be prudent to ask a lawyer about the implications and have a contract prepared that protect you and him appropriately. Mentioned at the right time, this could help a lot, because if you tell him you want him to make you pregnant, then he would reasonably want to have the legal details spelled out so he knows what he is and is not getting into. A venereal disease test would also be prudent and if mentioned appropriately, can make seduction more likely rather than less.
You could also just use an actual sperm bank, and avoid all of that.
@Zaku this could very much be the continuation of this question.
TL;DR version: apparently her husband has a fantasy of watching her having sex with another man while jerking off and wants to force her to fulfill it. She wants to have kids but her husband is impotent. That, plus his fantasy, drives her to prepare to have sex with a 19-year-old relative. The “young person” in this question is likely to be that boy.
Okay. I forget that I’m about the only Brit here.
Offer them candy.
What candy are you talking about?
If the goal is to get pregnant, then you’re best bet is to have sex when you are ovulating. That’s a whole ‘nother thing you’d have to research to find out how to figure that out.
If your goal is to thrill your husband, then getting a 19 year old to want sex is not too difficult, although if he’s a relative of your husband he may think this whole thing is weird.
What weird will he think?
When I was 18,a 27 year old woman lured me to her cabin on a cruise ship with alcohol. Then nature took it’s course.
It shouldn’t be too hard to get a male to have sex. The impregnation part is kind of disturbing though…
ReD the other thread lpeople before responding to this one.
I second what @janbb said. Read the “pregnancy” thread in its entirety. It’s linked by @Mimishu1995 above.
Well. We got drunk and then started watching a movie. I “accidentally” made lots of physical contact with her. She eventually put her head on my chest,as we lied there. As the time went by,she put her hand on my stomach, then she just slowly moved her hand lower,and lower…..
Well. I thought I was the one trying to seduce her. When I like a girl, I find reasons to graze her arm, or touch her some how. If she likes me,she won’t avoid the contact. Then maybe I find an excuse to get closer. In this case ,I said I was a little tired so would she mind if we laid down and watched a movie.Then we got closer,and closer…
A friend of mine has a hilarious line. If we’re at a party and it’s getting late,and there’s a girl he likes he’ll straight up ask her “can you help me take my pants off?” LOL. Sounds cheesy and lame right? Well, it got him married….
LMFAO! @Cruiser thanks. That’s hilarious. Still laughing…
See guys I want this but don’t want to loose respect.
You’re conning a teenager into getting you pregnant without his knowledge.
You’ve already lost respect.
@Seek you are too cryptic. You should have said “you are going to cone…” ~
He gets to enjoy me so its like trading.
@Shirley29 It is conning. IMHO You dishonor your husband, yourself and the younger person. Depending on his age, it could be rape.
@Shirley29 If the person you are wanting to “seduce” is under age and you are an adult, in some countries that is considered unlawful sexual interaction with a minor. There are other ways to impregnate yourself.
You can seek a sperm donor and undergo artificial insemination. You would either apply/purchase sperm from a sperm bank or find a private party to donate with the proper legal agreements stating the donor relinquishes parental rights, etc.
If you TRICK a man into impregnating you he has a RIGHT to know he has fathered a child. I don’t know what country you live in but deception remains deception. What makes you think you can have a strange man father a child and that he has no right to know he is, infact, a father? Also, please do not continue to PM me,
I have no interest in discussing this matter with you other than right here, right now.
I have not sent a pm to you.
@Shirley29 You have sent me 2 PMs since last night.
@Coloma please refer to this thread for a clearer context. And yeah even that thread is still ongoing.
He’s 19. Just take your clothes off.
BTW, is your husband going to watch?
Picked him up just now taking him for dinner out. Thanks for the idea @Dutchess_III removing clothes. I will try it.
this poor kid. What if he grows affectionate feelings for you? What if, when you get pregnant, he figures out it’s his? It isn’t rocket science. You are a cruel person if you don’t explain to him the whole situation. If you are capable of using a 19 year old boy like this, what sort of parent are you going to be? Just ask yourself.
He doesn’t even have proper facial hair. Will he be capable?
I will talk to him if he finds out. But I don’t think being with him he doesn’t have hair on his face.
What if he’s repulsed by you?
The fact that you are so utterly clueless about male sexually is just mind blowing. You know if he finds out he may sue you for custody. After he tells the judge of your deceit he will most certainly get it too.
Lord, there should be a Fluther Darwin award.
Folks… are we being tolled? This is too sad to be real.
@cazzie kinda lends a whole new meaning to the saying ” truth is stranger than fiction.” haha
I think I am going to give up after listening to you people. I don’t think I can be a mother. Its sad no one cares for what I feel. My husband also thinks about himself. I quit I can’t be a mother.
Good idea. Don’t take advantage and defraud your husband’s younger relative. Either be straight with him and honest or forget it. No child deserves to grow up with that cloud of subterfuge and fraud over them. You show NO respect for the child you so want to have.
If this person is posting from where I think they are, it is more like ‘Ask an Imam.’
I think there are some translation issues. And clearly cultural differences between the OP and most of us. It doesn’t seem like she’s happy about the situation. I wish her luck in whatever she decides to do. Worse things have happened.
Agreed. It’s an odd scenario. But some 19 year old guy is gonna get laid. That was at the top of my priority list at that age. I don’t see it the same as an older man with a younger girl.
This woman could still be great mother. The guy in a sexual encounter doesn’t always know what happens, in regards to pregnancy. That’s part of life.
The woman I spoke of went back to V.A. and I to S.C. We never saw each other again. I could have an 18 year old kid,and not know….
No… she won’t be a great mother unless she comes transparent. This kid is a close family member… not even a close comparison.
Why can the husband not do the impregnating?
@ZEPHYRA It is all laid out in her first equally bizarre question here
Bizarre or not, look at the length of this thread and the time and energy devoted to it?
Obviously we’re bored. And Subway is out of broccoli soup.
I don’t care! Go seduce yourself! Trying to stay on topic here.
It’s hard to seduce someone when you’re gassy. That’s on topic.
Unless he is into that sort of thing
LOL @MrGrimm888! I just have the funniest scenario of two sexy people farting all about the place!
Mmm hmm. Nasty,but funny.
I learned the hard way. No broccoli if I have a female visitor. The next morning sucks.
Ok, now that the OP has finally dropped her plan with a seemingly accusation for the tidepool for not caring for her feeling, I’m going to give my thought about this bizarre incident.
At first I thought this was some kind of troll, so I decided to be unhelpful and waste her time as much as possible, so that she would get bored of not getting any meaningful reaction from me and move on. But as I pushed on, it became harder to determine whether she was trolling or really that desperate. If she was a troll, then she was a really good actress, and a very persistent one too, also witha lot of time in her hand. Still, this whole thing was just too absurd for my brain to accept that it was real.
I was one of thr few people who received a PM from her for no reason. The PM was just something that could very much be a thread response instead. At that time I thought she was a troll so I played along and continued to sent cryptic messages. Our conversation went on from last noon until my bedtime. During the conversation, I asked her several crucial questions about how she planned her sex night and what would happen after that. What did I get? It became very clear that she didn’t have any clue what to do yet tried her best to defend the plan. She used a lot of “I assume” and “I’m sure” in her answers, and gave no clear explanation when I pressed about why she was so sure. She even contradicted herself at one point and envaded my question with the generic “I’m sure” when I asked about the contradiction. To sum up her answer, she really wanted to have sex with that kid, and she was pretty sure the kid would come home sastified, the husband would love the resulting child, and the child would never know about this whole thing. Yeah, life would be all good.
So what do we see from that? She clearly didn’t come here for any advice on how to have a baby or seduce a kid. She just wanted us to say out loud “yes! Just do it!” Any answer like that would suffice, even if there was just one answer like that. You may already have been able to see it from her responses here. I’m pretty sure she meant that she could find no one who agree with her plan when she said no one cared for her feeling.
Trivia: she replied to me amost immediately during my conversation in PM. That could mean something.
@Mimishu1995 You were not the only one to get multiple PM’s…I can go one of many ways on “her” contribution here. I have 2 amazing boys and I cannot imagine my life without them and yes I could imagine going to great lengths to bring them into this world but banging a relative would not be one of them EVER. We have been played plain and simple.
@Mimishu1995. Wow! Thanks for the update on the OP’s “logic”. I was so engrossed, my popcorn burned before I could settle in to enjoy it.
^ Haha Good to see you Kardy!
Yep it appears she was PMing a lot of us, what-ever.
Oh, and guess my “waste her time” scheme did work in some way :D In her last PMs she asked me to please stop being so crypic. She was either irritated (if she was a troll) or scared (if she was really clueless) and wanted me to stop keeping that cold face and stop bombarding her with questions that could reveal her true intention.
Hello guy sorry for being rude to you. I was so broken down that I was crying I felt that no one cares for me but then when my husband saw me crying he told me nothing is important to than I am. He said that he wants me to get a child because he wants to see me happy thats it. And he also said that he is planning me to be with stranger from some time on many dating sites but he couldn’t trust anyone so he chose his relative. for him more than fantasy its me who he is concerned. We are working on it now. I agree with you guys we can’t keep him in the dark so I will ask him but I just wanted to check before I ask whether he is interested in me or now thats why meeded some ideas. Removing clothes is the only idea I got from here.
@Shirley29 Then go ask him. You don’t love him and only want him for sex right? At least just be honest about it. We can’t know if he will be interested in you. The only way to find out is to go ask him.
If he agrees, that’s good for you. If he doesn’t, that’s fine too. After all he has to agree to have sex before you can do anything, and that’s totally his choice. You can’t force him to go to bed with you if he doesn’t want to.
It seems that you had the idea that if you find a way to seduce him he will automatically become interested in you and agree to have sex with you when you asked this question. It doesn’t happen, ever. Try to drop that idea and think like this instead: he can say no. You want to force him to bed with you and that’s immoral.
You won’t enjoy the sex right? So he won’t too, if he doesn’t want it and you force it on him. Remember that.
Hey guys in the morning I went to take bath as planned my husband left the door open deliberately the relative was in the hall watching tv I came out without anything and stood near the bathroom door he saw me but I pretended to stay unnoticed then I went away from the door inside my room near my bed then he got up from his place and came near the door and was watching me all the time but I was still pretending that no one is looking at me because I didn’t turn back to see him Even he was watching me stealthily than I didn’t notice him but when I began to go to the door I heard his feet. I was feeling so nervous I was literally shivering out of nervousness. Since then he always either keeps staring the bathroom door or me from the corner of his eyes. When me make eye contact he looks away. Now do you think he is interested in me? My husband said him that whenever he needs anything he can ask me but when I (me) am sleeping he can call my husband for help because I won’t get up from my sleep because I am on sleeping pills.
Are you people still angry with me?
Not many here think what you are doing is moral. Others of us don’t think this is real at all.
Is it moral if I tell him that you have become a father or should I tell him you can become a father after this what is right?
What do you think I am wasting my time here and what do I get in return. How can I prove its real?
Will it be moral if I don’t force him to do it. What if he wants to do it and I don’t force him. Is it all right?
@Shirley29 Judging by your behavior here you could very much be imagining the whole thing. You are making me so confused whether you really want the sex or not. You say no but your behavior says yes. Just stop thinking about it. It alone can be enough to make him see through you and stop having a normal relationship with you, let alone having kinky sex.
Actually at this point I have already given up on giving you any advice. You know what your problem is? You refuse to listen. This whole community could go on and on about how seriously you are messed up and what you and your husband could do instead to both have a baby and a happy life, but it would just fall on debt ears anyway. All I can say to you is: do whatever the hell you want, but make sure you have a clear plan and consider all risks first. You clearly have no idea what to do, as shown by your replies to my PMs. I ask several questions directly related to your plan and could help you think about it more carefully, but you just didn’t have any clear answer.
I am ready to listen to advises . But not forcing and he with his own will do it is it bad?
Sorry again for everything I haven’t messed up please advice me I will listen now. Please don’t give up giving advices.
My last word on the matter:
A child is a lifetime commitment.
If you can’t take 48 hours of time to seriously consider the ramifications of your actions, I shudder to think of what kind of life the child would have.
My only comfort is the hope that the relative is completely weirded out by his cousin’s wife making awkward passes at him, and he chooses to never visit again.
I am listening to your advices please say what to do?
I think he is not weird ed out because he is talking to me normally and by the way he is behaving itseems he is attracted I guess. He is coming closer to me and whenever I go to washroom he comes in bedroom.
I have agreed to say to him when time comes.
So, you and your husband have sat him down and told him your plans and what you are asking him to do?
Not yet my husband has not come home. But I am scared to tell him.
My main concern is what if after all this I don’t get pregnant . What I feel the better way is I tell him after something really happens with us.
I feel like this discussion has gone round and round and round for the past two or three days on two different threads. It was explained to the OP that having sex with this person will not necessarily result in a pregnancy. At this point, she’s asking questions and discussing things that were already discussed. It’s too weird or too unrealistic.
Should I tell him now or after (at least after the first encounter)?
@Shirley29: Just fuck him and let your husband watch.
This will be my last post on this thread. I think you and your husband should sit him down and tell him you want to have sex with him so that you may get pregnant. You should probably offer him money to be a surrogate sperm donor and have him sign a contract that he will not tell anyone he is the father if a baby comes. That is the honest, ethical thing to do. If you are not willing to at least give him the right to decide if he wants to try to impregnate you, you are not not acting ethically but immorally.
@jca please don’t say that you will make me cry again. Please I am listening to you we will talk to him .
@janbb ok we will talk about this. I know I was acting immature but now I understand that in future it will create problems to everyone.
@jca why do you think I can’t get pregnant by him?
You probably can get pregnant by him. It could happen in one encounter or it could take a thousand. The fact that you don’t understand that is also concerning.
As I told you in PM, stop being helpless and get the hell out of that relationship.
We will talk to him today about it. After this is it alright.
Why are you saying this please we are going to talk to him today when my husband comes home
It was starting to sound like her and her little brother were going to talk to her husband when he got home.
He is not my brother its his relative not mine. Yuck what do you think I am such a degraded person.
He is somebody’s little brother. And he is someone’s son. And his mother is about to become a grand mother if it works like you hope.
Now that it has come to this point, just do what @janbb said and accept that he has the right to say no.
Ok is it after all this if he is willing to be the part is it ok then?
No one says it’s ok, but then it has come to this point, is there any other choice?
One thing I notice about the OP is that she takes things way too literally. We really shouldn’t talk the same way we always do in case of serious misunderstanding ~
Then please tell me what is ok ?
How much more serious misunderstandings could there be in this wacky thread?!
Its because our cultures are different here. I have never been with other men before in my life thats how it works here I have no idea about it. And marriages are permanent here.
Then please clear my misunderstanding
Do the morally right thing and use a home insemination kit
otherwise this is a very bizarre and uncomfortable proposal you are asking that is unthinkable to most of us here.
I don’t think this is an actual issue. Just some troll.
OK, Since the OP needs to hear things clearly and takes things literally, this is what I think she should do.
1. Divorce your husband. He does not have your best interest in mind. He likes kinky sex. If he and you (and it needs to be both of you, not just him) want a child, you can adopt, or you can go use an anonymous sperm donor and go through that process, legally. I don’t believe your husband wants a child. He just likes kinky sex.
2. Leave this family. Having a child by your husband’s cousin, with or without his consent, is a terrible idea. It will create an ugly, and sick family dynamic. No one should ever do this. Too many people will get hurt, especially the child, if there should be one from such a union.
3. See a psychiatrist. You need lots of help and support regarding your willingness to engage in questionable behavior, and your constant need to change the story, just a little, to keep it going. You are either being manipulated, or you are just plain foolish, or you just like attention on websites like this.
That’s all. Plain and simple.
Wow! 57 responses since I was last here…
What in the blue hell is going on?
If I’m caught up, this is a weird troll,or a person with MANY differences in culture.
On the off chance it’s a real scenario, are we sure she won’t be stoned to death by her villagers? Maybe we should be telling her to flee her country…
It could be a serious matter…
For those of you thinking she’s a troll,you’re putting a lot of energy into this.
I’d like to add that I haven’t been PM’d. I was the only trying to tell her how to fuck this guy. Seems strange no?
We got us a sea monster in the pond…
I told her how to, in PM. I said “take your clothes off.” She thought that was a good idea.
Yup. Clothes just get in the way.
I can’t think of anything challenging about getting a 19 year old male to have sex…
When I was that age, it would have been a piece of cake.
Well she is married to the kid’s uncle, so it has to be weird for him.
My best seduction moment ever just involved serving dinner in a skimpy little white satin short nighty. Dinner was served but we ate late. lol
@MrGrimm888 I don’t know if you have read my report about what happened in my PMs right on this thread, but if you do you already know that I’m not even sure if she is really trolling or completely honest. I’m torn between the two assumptions. But what pisses me off is that she changes her story so often just to validate anything we say is wrong with her. It seems like she wants us to agree so badly that she has to do anything, desperately. If you observe the first thread that leads to this thread, you will notice that it started as a completely normal question about how to have a baby. It only became this twisted when all information she gave just to validate why she can’t follow our advice failed and she decided to reveal the shocking fact of her husband being kinky. Since then the story keeps getting weirder and weirder because she keeps changing the details.
I show you a simple contradiction. In the first thread she said she has been with her husband for 7 years, and right here just above you she said she has never had any contact with men and doesn’t understand men. How is that possible?
I’m afraid she is going to use your “stoned by the villagers” thing for the next detail of this story. This whole thing is feeling more like my dream, where everything has their own rule and contradictions are expected.
I want to be seduced.
I want a woman to
Take me out to dinner for two.
I’d like to see her
Eyes get moody,
Flirtin’ with the thought of what
Flirtin’ ought to do!
Leon Redbone Seduced
Sorry I wasn’t able to talk to him because my husband reached home late but something interesting/strange happened. After the conversation here I went to my bed and laid there to sleep. After sometime this guy comes in and touches my shoulder with his finger four five times. I guess he was trying to find out whether I was awake. Then he sat beside me I was facing the other side so my back was towards him. He slowly kept his hand on my waist and then on belly. I was feeling very uncomfortable then I realised that he thinks I am on sleeping pills But I was not. And I tried to play along he laid besides me then and slowly kept his hand on my shoulder drag it near my chest he kept his palm over it . It was making me more uncomfortable but somehow I managed to play it. Then he started rubbing him pants on my hips and after one point he even removed his pants I could hear zipper. He was poking it my hip and in the gap. But I didn’t give any reaction after a while he rushed to washroom and came back again he did this until my husband came home.
To be honest, you sounds to me like someone who is utterly obedient to your husband and don’t dare to do anything against him.
Then there is really no point in asking anything in the first place. Go ask your husband what to do and let him guide you instead.
I am happy with my husband and I don’t live in village. I live in India. Now in the morning one more thing happened. As planned I had a bath again in morning and same way like yesterday but I was shocked to see this guy was not in the hall he was on my bed using his phone. I came out without anything on I should have stayed out there and pretend that he is there but I was so embarrassed that I went I the bathroom and told him to pass me my towel. This cunning guy hid the towel somewhere else. Now I think I can get pregnant by him. And I won’t have to tell him that the kid is his.
This is exactly what I meant when I said you refuse to listen. Eventually you will just end up ignoring all our advice and just go do what you planned in the beginning anyway. No point in helping.
And the child attempted to have sex, thinking she was unconscious. Sick, sick world you’ve got going on.
Is anyone surprised that “her” posts are starting to sound like a badly written porn movie? Does anyone find it curious that “she” only PMd women?
I’m out.
I don’t know who are women here.
I’m a woman and you either start telling the truth to your husband’s relative or stop posting here, because really, we aren’t here to listen to your Hindi version of 50 shades of Grey. Yeah, I’m harsh, that is just how I am. I’m an older woman who has gone though plenty of life and when I meet people who think lies and fraud are any way to live a life, I call them out. Especially when it involves bringing a child into the world. I am a childcare worker and see things. Stop feeding your ego with this situation. Either you look at this clinically with your end goal, or you are using this situation to boost your ego to make yourself feel desirable to a younger man. If your motives were pure, what you have been posting is sad and should be heart breaking to you. You are trying to see if you are desirable to another man. I completely doubt your end goal here and you should, too. Look deep within yourself.
Yep, I am a women as well, and 100% in line with what @cazzie says.
I have zero patience for bullshit young or old peoples dysfunctional relationship crap. Take our advice or leave it, as we are leaving as well.
It’s all been said, lie, cheat, decieve, or make the higher choice.
It’s your life, your call, your consequences, except for the myriad negative trickle down effects you will be creating for multiple parties, mostly an innocent young man and a child. I’m out as well.
I happy now I don’t need any ideas now thank you all for your support now I have succeeded and I am still happy and everything is going normal I don’t have to tell him anything to anyone except my husband and no one will know whose baby is it. Except my husband and if the relative comes to know I can talk to him now he has become more friendly and open to me than before and I feel I can explain to him and if possible I will pay him as suggested above.
I don’t blame anyone here I am telling you all that I am happy now. And I don’t regret what have I done. And please don’t bring my nation into all this please.
I’m pretty sure that, at this point, no one cares.
I said this because some of you were concerned so if some people think that I am not fake its for those people. I just wanted to say that I am good now don’t worry about me and this matter.
OK great. Glad you’re happy @Shirley29. I agree nobody’s thinking any more about this topic and so we can put it to rest.
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