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Break up after long history behind us?

Asked by imrainmaker (8380points) February 23rd, 2017

Don’t know how to react to it. It’s officially over now. Tried patching it up multiple times but it didn’t work eventually. I was ready to give it one more chance but she bowed out. I’m not blaming her but guess we weren’t made for each other with so much personality differences. Sorry for the ranting but needed to vent it. Thanks for listening.

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Hawaii_Jake's avatar

hugs

Break ups are not fun. I wish you the best. Hope you heal quickly.

imrainmaker's avatar

Thanks @Hawaii_Jake – I hope so too.

elbanditoroso's avatar

Take a week and feel bad – that’s normal and natural.

Then, make a conscious effort to be positive. Turn over a new leaf. You’ll be fine.

rojo's avatar

Accept that it is over and try to focus on the positive aspects of the relationship and what you both got out of it.

MrGrimm888's avatar

Been there. My condolences.

janbb's avatar

@imrainmaker Not easy. Be gentle with yourself for as long as you need. Find what distracts you and use it.

imrainmaker's avatar

Thank y’all for your kind words!!

MrGrimm888's avatar

Peace n love

ZEPHYRA's avatar

You may be better off in the long run. Take care of yourself and be sure that you will soon feel stronger. It happened for a reason.

LuckyGuy's avatar

@imrainmaker The world is with you. This also explains the rains in Southern California.

imrainmaker's avatar

Haha…Thank you so much..)

imrainmaker's avatar

Sorry guys for posting this again. In another thread I had written that there are still some hopes of us coming together. But now all of them have vanished. Feeling the same pain again and feeling exhausted due to all these circumstances.

rojo's avatar

Thanks for following up. Sometimes it is nice to know the outcome and whether or not the advice was taken.

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