It might be easier to go in steps, rather than trying to go vegan all at once. Also, just going vegetarian might be an easier route to take, but that choice is yours.
You’ll probably want to do lots of research while you are making this transition (if you choose to make this transition). Read as much information as you can find about nutrition, recipes, animal welfare, and living in our society as a vegetarian. It can be easy or hard to become a vegetarian/vegan depending upon how important it is to you, how supportive your friends, family, and community are, how expensive it might be depending upon where you live, and how inconvenient it might be depending upon where you live (and who you will be sharing meals with).
I’m lucky. I live in California in a good sized city so there are lots of options, and vegetarianism is not considered too “out there” by most people here. Also, I love to cook and look for new foods and recipes. It can be a lot of work, but for me, it’s just part of my life. My best friend and her boyfriend are also vegetarians, so that makes it easier for me. My family is not, but they are very supportive (although some of them forget and it always seems to come as a mild shock to them when it gets brought up, even though I’ve been a vegetarian since 1990).
Go easy on yourself. Go easy on other people who have a negative view of vegetarians (try to avoid getting into debates with these people). You will probably have setbacks, and “oops” moments (like when you find out the soup you just ate was made with chicken or beef stock).
When you go out to eat, ask lots of questions, but be very polite about it. A lot of servers really don’t understand what “vegetarian/vegan” actually means, so you may have to ask a lot of (silly to them) questions such as: Is this dish made with meat/fish/fowl/eggs/cheese/dairy/milk/cream/gelatin. And even then, they might not know, and they might not tell you the exact truth. Example: One time I went to a Thai restaurant with a group of friends. I was the only vegetarian. I asked if the soup or the dish was made with fish sauce. The server said no. When my other friend (who had an allergy to fish) asked the same question, but let them know that she could die if there was fish sauce in the soup or dish, the answer was quickly changed to yes. Most people don’t care if you have dietary concerns unless they could kill you and your survivors could sue them.
When eating out, if you are not sure, the easiest thing is to specifically ask the servers what you could order that would be vegetarian/vegan (after asking all those other questions from above). If the server is not sure, have them ask the chef. The chef, because they are the ones actually making the food, know much more than the servers, in general.
When you go to someone’s home for a meal, try to have the discussion about your new dietary needs beforehand so they are not caught off guard, and always ask if you can bring a vegetarian/vegan dish to share. Most hosts are happy for you to do that. Be aware that a lot of folks simply don’t know what being vegetarian/vegan entails, and although they might be happy for you and tell you that they will serve something that you can eat, it often turns out that there is actually nothing for you to eat, because the host did’t plan to make a dish that fits the description. I always eat a little something before I go to a food related event, or carry energy bars in my purse for afterwards. Never make a scene.
So here are some resources for you to peruse.
25 Tips for Vegetarian Newbies
The Vegetarian Resource Group
Vegetarian Times
Veganism Blog and some Resources
List of Animal Ingredients and What They are Called
Animal Products Hidden in Foods You Wouldn’t Think Of
There are lots of veggie burgers to choose from. None of them taste alike. It could be fun to try a new one each week, or each month. However you want to do it. Go to a good store like Whole Foods to get lots of options. Most regular grocery stores only have 1 or 2 kinds.
Now for some veggie burger recipes (don’t expect them to taste like meat, just find some that taste delicious that you like) Some are vegetarian, some are vegan:
Vegan Chickpea Burgers
Vegetarian (this has eggs) Tofu Burger
Vegan Tofu Burgers
Vegan Mushroom and Black Bean Burgers
Vegan Texturized Vegetable Protein and Nutritional Yeast Burgers
Vegetarian (this has eggs) White Bean Burgers
Vegan Quinoa and White Bean Burgers
Vegan 35 Different Vegan Veggie Burgers
Happy eating : )