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Cooper_Saldana's avatar

Is she an exhibitionist?

Asked by Cooper_Saldana (599points) April 10th, 2017

I’m just asking because everyday when I go to get my son from school I sit in the same spot in the parking lot and this mother jogs past usually wearing tight pants and I can’t help but glance over at her.
Sometimes she even stops and stretches in the parking lot and everyone watches her.
We’ll today it was cold out and she had a jacket on and just before she past me she stopped at the garbage container and put something in there and then kinda hiked up her jacket a little and then walked past me.
I know she’s married, but do you think she’s kinda an exhibitionist or am I just getting lonely?

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chyna's avatar

You remind me of the movie Vacation where Chevy Chase’s character keeps seeing a beautiful girl played by Christie Brinkley and you don’t really know if it is his fantasy that she is really flirting back with him, or if she actually is.
But there is nothing wrong with looking.

zenvelo's avatar

You are fantasizing. Tight clothing is de rigeur for women running.

She is not an exhibitionist, although she may be proud of her body if she is working out everyday.

elbanditoroso's avatar

@Cooper_Saldana – what does it matter what her intentions are?

Enjoy the view. Would it be more or less fun if she meant to be giving you a thrill?

You’re not peeping in her windows, you;re doing nothing but sitting there watching the world go by.

If you want, thank the deity of your choice for having yet again displayed the beuty of one of god’s creations. And wait until summer when she doesn’t need to wear a coat.

Earthbound_Misfit's avatar

Impossible to say. She might just be exercising and you just happen to enjoy watching her. Should she exercise in a burka? Or perhaps she’s fully aware of the effect her clothes and body have on men who see her and is enjoying the reaction.

Dutchess_III's avatar

She may be totally unaware of the affect it’s having on you.

Cooper_Saldana's avatar

Thanks guys.
@elbanditoroso would it be more or less fun if she meant to be giving me a thrill?
Umm…I guess yes, just because her husband is older than me and he used to bully me a little in school so as much as I hate cheaters and suffered being cheated on and would never do that to anyone else I kinda enjoy the idea that my old school bully’s hot wife goes a little out of her way to show me her butt sometimes.
He also cheated on her years ago when she was overweight and pregnant and I think that’s why she obsesses about staying fit now.
He’s an asshole or at least he was to me.
I think she kinda does enjoy the attention and I’m single so I just enjoy the show. : )

Dutchess_III's avatar

* effect. *

She may or may not be doing it for the “attention.” Can’t women do anything without some guy seeing it as a come on?

Cooper_Saldana's avatar

Good point, thanks.

Strauss's avatar

As a (female) friend of mine once said, there’s nothing wrong with window shopping, as long as you don’t bring anything (anyone) home!

Cooper_Saldana's avatar

@Strauss I agree because there’s lots to look at these days.
Honestly I kinda look forward to seeing her jog by a few times a week and honestly I kinda feel like she knows that I look at her and she’s ok with it because I’ve been sitting there for years and on some days she kinda makes it easy for me, I guess?
Maybe I’m full of myself because everywhere I see her she shows off her body to everyone.
I don’t want to be disrespectful to her marriage even though her husband treated me like shit.
Either way, she’s really pretty and maybe I’ll see her again tomorrow and I hope it’s warm out, but to look or not to look? That is the question.

Patty_Melt's avatar

Is she picking up a kid there? If she isn’t then the only reason I can think of for her to run through a school parking lot at release time would be to show up. If she is picking up a kid then she is probably focused mostly on that

jca's avatar

No harm in looking.

Cooper_Saldana's avatar

@Patty_Melt She definitely has kids and she jogs a lot.
She tried talking to me once outside the school while I was still married and I just kinda smiled and said very little because I am attracted to her.
Anyway, I don’t want to read too much into this and I don’t see anything wrong with her liking herself and enjoying that people wanna look at her.
Honestly, I do the same thing in the summer when I take my son to the beach.
I start working out months before and I always make sure that I look my best and after swimming I walk up onto the beach to my chair right in front of the mother’s that are there and act all innocent, but if I see any if them check me out while I towel off it honestly makes my day.
Maybe I’m the exhibitionist?

LuckyGuy's avatar

@Cooper_Saldana We all inhale a little deeper and stand a little taller when we know we’re being watched.
It’s hard to fight 100’s of thousands years of evolution.
Relax. Both of you are normal.
Enjoy.

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