I would also like to add my voice to @gorillapaws and advocate for meditation.
Forget about trying to be empty. My bipolar disorder makes that literally impossible, yet I meditate every morning. It is the most important thing I do to maintain my recovery from mental illness.
Here’s what I do.
I sit on a stool that allows me to make my hips even with my knees. My feet are flat on the floor. I put my hands in my lap palms up, one resting on top of the other. My back is erect, but I am relaxed. When I first began meditating many years ago, I had to consciously relax my body. Start from the feet and work up to the head. Relax everything, but remain erect.
Once I’m relaxed, I imagine a red thread of light connecting me to the Earth’s center and a white thread of light to Heaven. If I haven’t already started, I breathe evenly. (I’ve been meditating for many years, so this is automatic now.) I try to concentrate on my breath.
But.
This is when the thoughts start.
Here’s the important point: I don’t stop them. I don’t even want to stop them. I let them wander.
But.
I remain detached from the thoughts. I just watch them. I don’t engage in their emotions, and they are always trying to get me to feel something. When a thought arises that causes anxiety, I pay very close attention to where that anxiety is happening in my body. It might be in my stomach, chest, throat, or head. Actually, it’s always in my stomach these days. I watch the anxiety. I allow it to have space.
Once it has it’s space, I reach in and shape it into something I can hold like a ball or a cube, and then I remove it. I just gently toss it away, and it goes away. These days, I stay calm after meditation for a number of hours. If I get anxious again, I meditate and release it.
All the while, I’m giving thought to the process of breathing.
That’s it. That’s all it is, and it has given me truly amazing results. I found unshakable self-love this way. I have a very solid core belief of who I am. I know myself extremely well. That knowledge is honestly priceless.
After many years of meditating, I can report that my mind is much quieter than it used to be. I can breathe now and not think for 2 whole breaths. Then the thoughts come, and they are very quiet.