@Patty_Melt I can’t speak for my friends, but I’d say probably yes. Even my very religious Catholic MIL, who tends to be naive, and is not very educated (6th or 8th grade, I don’t remember which) said to me about ten years ago that now she sees being a Priest is a “job.”
If you ask my opinion I don’t think it matters what bad priests have done, the Catholic religion is what the individual Catholic makes it. If they find peace and order in it, and it helps them be good people, I’m fine with it. My Catholic friends find comfort in the rituals, enjoy the traditions, and most of them still practice birth control, they are accepting of other religions, they are inclusive, not exclusive, some are pro-choice politically, the vast majority were pro gay marriage, they have the religion for them, and understand not everyone is Catholic. The church is strong on science, accepts, evolution as a scientific theory, understand the importance of separation of church and state.
None of that excuses some of the absolute horribleness that has occurred within the church, but I think it’s also naive to think it doesn’t happen in other places of worship.
Maybe because I’m Jewish it’s easy for me to separate religious belief from religious identity. A large percentage of Jews are secular. In America we even divide up reform, conservative, orthodox, and then there are further divisions from there. Christians don’t really have that in any formal way that people can openly admit they are atheists or don’t agree with parts of the Bible or whatever. Disagreement is kept quiet for the most part, except in Catholicism I see it, if we separate the Catholics out from other Christians. Some feel ok admitting when they disagree with the Pope, or old school traditional rules, although sometimes they are almost ridiculed as cafeteria Catholics. But, often it is noncatholucs ridiculing. Like when a non-religuous Jew takes a day off for Yom Kippur.
I do know Baptists who aren’t supposed to dance or drink who do, and I know Mormons who cheat and have a Coke now and then or a drink. I don’t mean to say only the Catholics seem to have the ability to “cheat” and still feel and identify as Catholics.
My whole point is, if a person identifies with Catholicism, their religion, as having given them good things in their life, I don’t see why they would leave so fast, because the bad stuff is easily dismissed as not what the religion is supposed to be or meant to be.