@marissa,
I am sorry you feel that you are now in a position where you need to apologize or feel the need to apologize for your kindness. I will say, that I joined fluther, actually, several months ago. I just didn’t have the frame of mind to participate in several places, at one time. So I stuck with what I was comfortable with, Askville.
When the crap hit the fan, I came here, like many other. However, what I did and I will say to everyone that is thinking that we all didn’t try to look around, at Marissa’s and PnL’s urging, I looked around and started to participate.
I rarely, (except on this question, another one posted just before this one – oh and one asking if you prefer Yahoo Answers or Askville – which I mentioned that I really liked fluther.) if ever mention Askville in my answers. In fact, I haven’t gravitated to the askville questions. I made the decision that I didn’t want to be cak from Askville. I want to stand on my own merits, here. Cak, someone new on fluther. Hopefully, someone that others will come to think of as a productive member of fluther.
Marissa did invite us, PnL also encouraged us – to find a better online place to go, that’s all. They both encouraged us to look around, to start becoming part of fluther, if we liked it. They provided the guidelines, hints and told us to please ask them, when we need help.
Please, if anyone thinks they did something wrong, they didn’t. They only tried to invite friends. They didn’t realize that this would happen.
Marissa, I’m sorry that you felt the need to post this, I do hope that things calm down, soon and that things are ok for you.