@cinnamonk and @Call_Me_Jay
My guy. Right. LOL.
Look, these people were never supposed to get in. America is in a real life or death struggle right now. In order to get these people out once an for all will take a concentrated effort. To continuously get side tracked on what they say and the trigger phrases they use plays right into their hands. It’s a waste of energy and you are only speaking to the choir when you complain about it. Yes, they are offensive. But what needs to be called out is what they do. That is more offensive by magnitudes. It’s high time people set their priorities, pick their battles strategically, and to be offended at every little thing they say is a total distraction.
And I suspect a non-confrontational cowardliness in this. It is a way to say “I’m in the struggle, too” but not seriously doing anything concrete toward change. It’s bullshit, a luxury we don’t have right now. When we get decent people in the seats of power, have to it. But right now, there are many other important things one can do besides complain about how certain assholes speak. Speak to their actions. Ignore theiir bullshit. It disracts people from the fight.
I was an RN for almost a quarter of a century. The battle I’ve chosen is for Single Payer Universal healthcare in the US. I read about what the present administration is doing to keep that from us, and I speak to it constantly whenever I get a chance. I try to educate Americans on how it works, how it saves money and how successful it is in other democracies with thriving economies. I don’t allow myself to get distracted by verbal insults. And that’s how you fight, if you’re seriously into the fight.
Your battle might be different. There are a lot of things that the present admin is doing to choose from. But being overly sensitive will only side rail the conversation—and this is exactly what the opposition wants, because they know their argument—that their plans for universal healthcare is equitable and fair for all—is packed with falacy,errror, and disingenuous to the extreme—and therefore unarguable. They will lose if they push that argument too far and they know it. So, the best tactic for them is to distract, confuse and divide us.
So, it’s nothing personal, guys. Whether you realize it or not, this is a street fight. When chairs are flying, you’re not going to get a lot of sympathy from your team if you stand up in the middle of it all and whine about something some guy said. It’s way beyond that now. Now is no time to be so damn sensitive.
I’ve no problem being called “shrill”. Shrill I may be. The word to me is not loaded with gender like it is for you guys.