@Dutchess_III I didn’t mention prisoners. Did I have some sort of typo I don’t know about?
I mean I would still provide services like lunch in schools, day care, medical services for the children, formula for infants, even diapers. I would control where that money was going. I actually usually don’t support the idea of the government dictating exactly what types of foods can be bought with food stamps, but the baby birthing thing I’m a little stricter about it, and more frustrated. Like I said above, I’m not keen on the government telling a woman what she has to do with her fertility, but 3 and 4 babies is unacceptable when someone is on public assistance in my mind. To say even one baby is too many, well, I just can’t say that, because I can’t see denying poor people the ability of being parents, it just seems wrong to me.
I’m not going to leave the baby out there with nothing, but there has to be some way to incentivize women to not get pregnant when on public assistance. In fact, I’m pretty sure I’m ok with an incentive like if you’re on government services, and don’t have a baby you get an extra $500 at the end of the year, if you want it to be an incentive rather than a “punishment.”
So, you’re accusing me of being middle class, because I think people should consider their financial situation before having another child (besides the one they already have)? Yes, the middle class put that burden on themselves, and so they feel like maybe everyone should have the same burden. I’m guilty of that. Why should a middle class person who likes the idea of having more children, but sacrificed that desire because financially it would be difficult, then pay for someone else’s baby?
Plus, I’m still curious, aren’t at least some women happy to get free birth control? I don’t stereotype all low income women as wanting ten children. Plenty of them I’m sure will control their own fertility if given the opportunity to do it for free. I just saw a show recently where a lower income woman had 4 adult children, and she said she thought of aborting the fourth, never wanted to have so many children (she implied even three was too many) and I would have loved if someone would have asked her why wasn’t she using birth control? My assumption, maybe I’m wrong, is simply she just didn’t. Possibly, it was because she didn’t have easy access, and by that I mostly mean money. This woman worked, she wasn’t sitting around doing nothing.