The Allocation of Women’s Time: An International Comparison from 1982 (old, I know), compares how women’s time is spent across nations and finds that those in planned economies spend more time at work and doing home work. It says that the more women work (for money) the less leisure time they have (doing two jobs). But is this still true?
An 1993 book found that “Men’s housework changes very little with women’s work demands.”
A 2004 book used 1994 data regarding 22 countries. It found that gender division of domestic labor persisted, and suggested that a change in domestic labor roles depends on willingness of both partners to consent to change. It seems to suggest that although women want a change, men, on average, still resist that change in roles internationally.
Then there’s a 2006 paper that used data from an international comparative study conducted in 12 European countries between 2000 and 2003. The paper by Marietta Pongrácz was called Opinions on Gender Roles and it had this relevant table:
Who usually does the housework in your home?”—distribution of responses in international comparison (data refer to couples aged 20–40, %)
Country ....Me….....My partner…We share housework equally…Someone else…Total
Female respondent
Austria .........73….........4….............. 22…................................. 2….................. 100
Lithuania ......62 ...........2 .................34 ....................................2 .....................100
Hungary .......71 ...........2 .................34 ....................................2 .....................100
Romania ......51 ...........5 .................37 ....................................7 .....................100
Male respondent
Austria .........3 ..........67 .................26 ....................................4 .....................100
Lithuania ......3 ..........52 .................43 ....................................1 .....................100
Hungary .......3 ..........69 .................24 ....................................4 .....................100
Romania ......8 ..........34 .................54 ....................................3 .....................100
I am arguing that it is pretty much universally true across nations, that women are expected to focus on home and family. Can I rest my case now?
I’m not saying this is a good thing, just that it is an accurate description of the current state of opinion. There are opportunities for change, but by and large, men are resistant to change, and women can’t unilaterally make the change, unless they are prepared to divorce their husbands. But where would that get them? They’d still have to do all the housework.
Remember, these are averages, and there is variation, so you can find examples of households where things are different. But overall, it simply doesn’t appear to be true.