What can I do or how can I act if I want to make him love me?

You cannot “make” someone love you….ever. That is all them.

Be interesting. Have a backstory that needs to be discovered. Don’t tell everything . Let it slowly leak out over time.

I’d love to know about the 3 day time limit. That is interesting. :-)

You’d think that after centuries of love potions and voodoo rituals people would finally get it.
It is what it is, and there is no forcing it.

get him drunk

Eye contact. Lots of touching.

Well, either he’ll fall for you or he won’t. If you do fake things to “make” him love you, your relationship will be in for a rude awaking sooner or later.

Good hygiene, including oral hygiene.
A delicate balance between innocence and savoir faire, maternal tolerance and high expectations, moral standards and boudoir savvy.
All the usual yin and yang stuff.

I agree with @anniereborn, you can’t make someone love you. And trying to become what someone else might want is a really bad idea. If he’s going to love you, let it be for you, as you are. And as for falling in love in three days, if it happens, it’s infatuation. Real love might develop from that initial infatuation.

Why three days?

Why are you in such a hurry? Do you want something from him?

Well unless you are really trying to be the next Don Juan then drop the whole idea entirely. Otherwise try to make your man think you will be the woman of his dream, or at least great on bed, but I would very much recommend against it.

But even Don Juan couldn’t make it with in such little time, and he only wanted his women to go to bed with him. He may look like he made it quickly, but what people miss is the time he spent to study his victims.

Show interest. Get him to talk about himself.

Go see Madam Blue.

Oh. Good song. Now I have to hear it.

Not Love Potion Number 9!!!

I agree that you can’t make someone love you and basing it on lies or half truths is certain to fail.

That being said, @josie did mention “oral”.

~Show up naked bring pizza.

Tell him.

Love can’t be forced. You want him to like you? Be yourself and show interest in him. Not smothering or clinging, just interest. If all you are looking for is a short term thing, keep it physical…but that’s not love. I like some of the other answers: good hygiene, good eye contact, and I might add be there when you are with him…talk and listen.

I read an article about the questions you need to ask each other to fall in love together. Note that it has to be mutual (if only because you are going to need prompts so trying to read something secretly off your phone will kill the mood)

What makes you so certain that this guy is the one? Haven’t we been down this path before? The best love advice I have ever seen is in Scott Peck’s book, The Road Less Traveled. Basically, what Peck says is that love requires work over time. He frowns on the notion of love at first sight. I like the advice given by @LuckyGuy . Offer a prelude to a longer term relationship that has the potential to become one of mutual love.

You know what, love yourself, be into yourself in three days. Being super confident, sassy and sexy is a turn-on for most guys. Find some common ground, be yourself, imagine if he fell for an actor, the you that didn’t exist? how exhausting would it be to carry on the act?

I think @RedDeerGuy1 may have a point.

I don’t think this is about long lasting, true love. She has a time frame of 3 days. What’s up with that? She trying to make someone jealous?

You cannot. You can mirror what he says and feels, but if you are not being authentic it won’t work in the long run.

Yeah, what’s up with the three days?! Is it a bet? A jealousy ploy? A reality show?

#thisjellywantstoknow

Well Im leaving the country in two days! Thats why :(

A piece of advice: I was dating a girl shortly before I got out of the navy and was due to leave the state. I thought I loved her and she loved me. We decided to get married. BIG MISTAKE! My now ex was one of the nuttiest creatures on this earth, she just hid it well. I did get three wonderful children out of the marriage, and I guess that makes it worth all the headaches, but I went through quite a few years of hell and thousands of dollars in lawyers fees before and after the divorce to get to where she was no longer a thorn in my side. The advice? Don’t Rush Into Something Because You Want It To Be LOVE!

If you’re leaving the country why do you want him to fall in love with you first?

I think you’re just crazy.

Probably Nothing

Round and round the mulberry bush, the monkey chased the weasel, the monkey thought ‘twas all in fun, pop goes the weasel.

@dopeguru ok, so suppose you manage to get him to love you, then what? How will you maintain the relationship? Will he go with you too? And if he can’t go what will you do? How will you be sure the relationship will last?

Sounds like she doesn’t want him seeing other women while she’s gone? Of course, she won’t be able to see other men, either.

Great link, @Kardamom. I see @dopeguru never answered my questions Iposted on that question.

Im in love.

How long have you known this guy? And how long will you be away for? If you’re just going on a holiday, wait until you get back and let things develop naturally (or not).

I’ll be away for forever :/

Then there isn’t much point making him fall in love with you is there?

Well. Distance can be worked.

Why are you so desperate about this guy? You haven’t even told us if you like him. It’s like you just picked some random guy out and went on this quest. What is the deal?

Maybe she watched a little too much The Little Mermaid? Where she he three days to get the prince to kiss her?

Actually, truly madly in love relationships usually don’t stand the strain of long distance, especially when the players are young so I’m not getting this at all.

@Dutchess III, the emphasis being on the word “player.”

Yes, especially in this case and especially in her case. Poor guy.

Well, it has passed 3 days already. Guess there’s no point arguing more right?

I answered just yesterday. But I’m done here, too.