Should I contact my girlfriend again?

DO NOT initiate any more conversation, calls, or texts. She will either reach out to you, or you will never hear from her again.

She may be ghosting you. But the last thing you want to do is be the pestering, abandoned paramour. It may be a hard, painful lesson, but it is either something she will explain, or it is over.

Stop all attempts at communicating. Let it go. Let her call you, if she ever does.

Kind of an odd way to end a 7 month relationship.

@abheem: Did you have any kind of argument or disagreement prior to her not responding to you?

@jca not that I know of, we were suppose to meet but we didn’t because we were both busy. She said I should tell her when I’m free after that we didn’t contact each other until Friday I called she didn’t answer, I called again Saturday twice but no answer. Now I just wanted to text her that if she wants to breakup she should tell me instead of ignoring my calls. So should I text or not.

I would but I like closure, especially after 7 months. I’d not beg or plead. I wouldn’t be angry in my tone. I’d word it vaguely, like “I’m wondering if everything is ok. Is there a reason why you haven’t responded to my texts or calls?” If she doesn’t respond to that one last text, I’d be done.

@jca I was thinking of writing something like ” call me and let’s talk about what’s going on between us, but if you don’t call I’ll understand that there’s nothing to talk about and I promise to leave you alone”
How was that?

@abheem: You have to do what you feel is appropriate, of course but the way you worded it to me sounds too much like begging. You don’t know what’s going on between you (“us”) because you said as far as you know there’s nothing wrong.

I’d do it the way I worded it, but that’s just me.

@jca I just don’t know. A lot of my friends told me to just let her be and not contact her again…

@abheem: You have to do what you feel is appropriate. If you don’t want to contact her, then don’t.