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Would you please give me your opinions and suggestions for this letter of complaint I've composed?

Asked by Dutchess_III (47069points) September 18th, 2017

For some background see this question.

My biggest concern is I don’t want to get other people in trouble, or black listed. The gals who told us about the sitting were just passing information down from on high.

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To Whom It May Concern,

I am extremely upset over the lack of consideration and respect that was given to the volunteers who worked the floor of the Mercantile, especially the elderly, who volunteered their time to help this festival run smoothly. All of us have worked hard all of our lives. None of us were teenagers who needed to be directed and told when to sit and when not to sit, or when appropriate times are to take a break or how that break should be taken.

I volunteered to work at the Mercantile last year. My duties included entering sales in the computer, and occasionally going out on the floor to help customers. I enjoyed it and volunteered for the Mercantile again this year. They scheduled me for 4 hours on Thursday, Friday and Saturday.

About two hours after I reported in on Thursday, things seemed to be crowded behind the counter and I asked if I could bring a 4th chair, a camp chair, in the next day. At that time I learned that my sole job this year was to work the floor and not to run the register or work behind the counter. I was also told that sitting while working the floor was frowned upon. I was told that if we had no customers, and I needed to sit down, I could sit on a bench, outside of the Mercantile, around the corner. It was a hard, uncomfortable, wooden bench.

I went out on the floor for the last two hours, and quickly realized how very painful it became to stand out there with little relief. I am 59, I have never had any physical or health problems, but in the last 4 years my sciatic nerve sometimes acts up. In recent years I have also become prone to upper back pain.It’s just the kind of thing that happens when you have too many birthdays.

Friday and Saturday I was exclusively on the floor.

On Friday I brought my camp chair in. I thought I could set it up next to the far end of the hard wooden bench outside in the hall. It is comfortable and provides support for my back, although putting it there would put me even further away from the Mercantile than I was comfortable being.
However, I stashed it under the bench instead because a coworker I was relieving showed me that she had put a hard, folding metal chair in a little nook by the cash register. It fit perfectly and it was well out of the way. She had also placed one at the other end of the shelf. She and I had not discussed this issue before this but I guess she had the same problem.

On Saturday, when I went in, I noticed both of the folding chairs were gone. The coworker who had set them up was trying to sit on the 4 X 4 railing that runs along the wall that is used to tie horses and cattle to during the Fair. She was just trying to get some relief, without leaving the floor, but her seat meant she had to be hunched over to stay on the board.
I became a little upset for her and engineered a small protest. I pulled out my camp chair and put it in the nook by the register. I showed it to her, and she sank into it, gratefully. She only needed to sit for a few moments to recover, before she got back up and finished her shift.

The two coworkers I worked with that night were elderly. At 59 I was the youngest one on the floor. They were about 80, and they were having a very hard time with the circumstances, although they weren’t complaining. It was obvious. The older gentleman has diabetes and had recently undergone dialysis. He could barely stand, but he bravely stood his ground, leaning against the temporary partition that was up, pressing his back into it, for four hours. The older woman also spent a great deal of time pressing her back against the partition. Neither wanted to break the “rules.” Neither did I, but my conscious said that these rules have to be modified. I felt like they were my elderly parents and they needed help and no one was listening. However, they were reluctant to take advantage of the chair I set out, as sitting down is frowned upon.

I would like to point out that several customers also took the opportunity to rest in something other than hard, unyielding picnic tables. They, too, are on their feet for hours.

I would like to stress that I am speaking only for myself. My observations were mainly that, observations, personal experience, and commonsense. I don’t wish anyone to experience any negative fallout from this complaint. The others were not complaining outwardly and I doubt they will in the future.
I will also say that sitting was not prohibited, just frowned upon. It was made clear that we could sit on the bench if we “needed to,” but none of us felt comfortable being outside of our station so that sense of responsibility effectively left us with no option.

I would like to volunteer again next year, and the year after that. I would prefer to work in the Mercantile, but if this situation can’t be remedied I respectfully request to be assigned to a venue where reasonable accommodations can be made. This would be, for example, the craft venue, or driving a Gator, rescuing otherwise able bodied people who simply can’t walk 10 miles from where they park, to get to the festival and vice versa.

Attached is a picture of the chair in question so you can see that it in no way interferes with the customers or the employees on the floor.

Thank you for your consideration.

Sincerely,

Me.

Chair

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13 Answers

jca's avatar

I’d shorten it up a bit.

I’m writing in reference to a situation that occurred while volunteering at the Mercantile this year.

I volunteered to work at the Mercantile last year. My duties included entering sales in the computer, and occasionally going out on the floor to help customers. I enjoyed it and volunteered for the Mercantile again this year. They scheduled me for 4 hours on Thursday, Friday and Saturday.

My sole job this year was to work the floor and not to run the register or work behind the counter. I was also told that sitting while working the floor was frowned upon. I was told that if we had no customers, and I needed to sit down, I could sit on a bench, outside of the Mercantile, around the corner. It was a hard, uncomfortable, wooden bench. I went out on the floor for the last two hours, and quickly realized how very painful it became to stand out there with little relief. Friday and Saturday I was exclusively on the floor.

On Friday I brought my camp chair in. I thought I could set it up next to the far end of the hard wooden bench outside in the hall. It is comfortable and provides support for my back, although putting it there would put me even further away from the Mercantile than I was comfortable being. One of my fellow volunteers brought in a metal folding chair. We both stashed the chairs out of the way when we left on Friday night.

On Saturday, when I went in, I noticed both of the folding chairs were gone. The coworker who had set them up was trying to sit on the 4 X 4 railing that runs along the wall that is used to tie horses and cattle to during the Fair. I offered her my folding chair and she was grateful to use it.

I don’t wish anyone to experience any negative fallout from this complaint. The others were not complaining outwardly and I doubt they will in the future. I will also say that sitting was not prohibited, just frowned upon. It was made clear that we could sit on the bench if we “needed to,” but none of us felt comfortable being outside of our station so that sense of responsibility effectively left us with no option.

I am 59 and I was probably the youngest person volunteering. I would like to stress that I am speaking only for myself. Nobody wanted to break the “rules” but we it was very hard for us to complete our shifts without being able to sit down.

I would love to volunteer my time at next year’s Mercantile but it would be almost impossible for me to work at this station under such circumstances.

I am very interested in hearing your thoughts on this.

Sincerely,

Dutchess

marinelife's avatar

Spell conscience correctly.

It is a little rambling. Make your points quicker and more directly” I have not had this problem is previous years. Other people were affected too. I’d like the rules to be modified or another assignment.

Dutchess_III's avatar

I go with @jca‘s post. She doesn’t have “conscience” in it so that problem is solved!

Thanks for taking the time to read it guys. I had a feeling I was too emotionally close to the situation. It just freaking broke my heart to see those people struggling, and it pissed me off. My back STILL hurts.

Dutchess_III's avatar

Wait @jca. She didn’t bring in the metal chairs. They were already there, on the other side of the “counter,” in the aisle that the one side of the folding table faced. Not sure what they were there for, I guess for customers to sit in if they had questions for the girls running that part, but they weren’t for our use. She just snagged them. She was leaving as I was coming in. I didn’t put them away when I left. I left them right where they were. The next day they were just gone. They weren’t at the table anymore, either. It was like they hid them.

jca's avatar

OK gotcha, @Dutchess_III. So modify that paragraph and maybe add one more sentence toward the end of the letter, hammering home the point about how it’s very to ugh for you to not be allowed to sit for so many hours.

Dutchess_III's avatar

The thing is, they didn’t forbid us from sitting. It was just frowned upon, and they didn’t offer a convenient place.

jca's avatar

Gotcha. So clarify it in the paragraph.

Dutchess_III's avatar

OK. Well I said, “It was frowned upon,” and my editor (you) left it in. I just don’t want the full time girls to get in any trouble. They weren’t the ones responsible for it (I don’t think.) I just want to make that clear.

2davidc8's avatar

@Dutchess_III @jca Both versions are too long. TL;DR Get to the point, focus on the essentials.

Dutchess_III's avatar

I agree that my version was too long and had some emotional overtones. I think that @jca‘s was much better and touched on all the important issues. Which points do you feel can be left out @2davidc8?

NomoreY_A's avatar

Send the original, the hell with the length. The point should be gotten across, forcefully but in a civil way, and I think you got ‘er done. Give them time to respond, and if they can’t make some reasonable accommodations, just take on another task next year. Or let them hire some young kids, and let you know how it works out for them. Just my own two cents worth.

Dutchess_III's avatar

I am glad you’re mad with me @NomoreY_A! Thank youc

NomoreY_A's avatar

Well, it seems kind of ridiculous to me, to be so uptight with people who volunteer their time to help out. No need to be so damn strict and formal. Now if that was a paid position, you’d just have to suck it up and play the game. But it’s not.

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