What happens when people learn the hard way?

It means you will make mistakes until you stop dating a person who is wrong for you.

The hard way is when you learn from the consequences of staying with someone who is no good for you.

For example, they go back and the consequences of the bad happen until they learn from those consequences that they would be better off leaving (including the time and energy invested while having it not work out, at the very minimum).

Learning the hard way means you suffer a lot of pain – physical or emotional – from what you’ve done.

That’s the only way most people learn….

If you were broken up with by someone who isn’t good/right for you and you get back together with them, you are likely to get dumped again in a more harsh/unpeasant way than you were the first time.

What didn’t you learn the first time?

Learning the hard way means it hurts.

Remember what Will Rogers said:

There are three kinds of men. The one that learns by reading. The few who learn by observation. The rest of them have to pee on the electric fence for themselves.