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NSFW Ladies do you have something you won't tell?

Asked by CalHoncho (141points) November 8th, 2017

A fantasy that you keep to yourself in fear of what your SO might think? Why? Have you shared fantasies and been shocked at what you heard?

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I think this is a good question. I have certainly in the past not shared a lot of fantasies and I am sure many don’t. Which is a shame as partners could be all the richer for it, sexually I mean. Currently, I am quite comfortable with my partner and would share. Although he is very open minded I do think he might raise an eyebrow or something, or looked shocked! So perhaps not all of them. I was very into ‘ball-busting’ at one time. He was having none of it! I also worry about the harm I could do of course. So, I have had to let that one go. (And no, it’s not from a hatred of men either).
I am not sure if people misread your question as I think it’s an important one that couples should think about. Perhaps the ‘ladies’ only inference put people off, as men have loads of fantasies too.

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