No. I’ve come to the realization, that a lot of people could be accused of sexual harassment.
Some of the recent news is severe. Some are rapists, or even serial rapists. Others may have just exercised poor judgment, and in many cases were under the influence of drugs (still a problem.)
Double standards, or unequal treatment are big deals to me. If every male who groped a female, is guilty of a crime, then females need to be held accountable too. But wouldn’t that mean that a large number of people have committed a crime? I’ve personally been groped by maybe over 200 girls/women. In different degrees. Usually, they grab my penis, or butt. They are, to me, unafraid of any consequences because they are female. Just like the powerful men not being afraid because they are powerful. In both cases, they take advantage of how society views them. In both cases, they lose self control. Most of the females who groped me were drunk. Most were very attractive, and most are upper class/wealthy (take from that what you will.)
So. In my life, just one person, I have had hundreds of “crimes” committed on me. Should all those females receive jail time, and have their reputation permanently stained? These are nurses, doctors, lawyers, teachers etc. I personally don’t want them all to be imprisoned. I think most are relatively normal, good people, who made a quick, thoughtless act. An instinctive impulse flashes through their brain, and they act before thinking. Some are just sick women, who grab whomever they want, and get more grabby as they’ve never been checked.
I’m not saying that groping is rape. It just isn’t. But if groping is a crime, there is a sizeable population that should be held accountable. And most importantly, to me, females need to be judged by the same standards.
So. Do we really want every person who has done what could be considered “groping,” to be penalized?
There should definitely be a change in the way people behave. But I find this behavior extremely common, and usually happening for the same reasons. It is an issue with society and human beings. Not just men, or women. It seems to me that when people know that they probably won’t be held accountable for something, they will do it if they want…
To clarify, I think the “gropers,” should be separated from the rapists. The rapists should be dealt with accordingly, and the “gropers,” maybe should have counseling or something. The sheer volume of these incidents is not surprising, to me. I wager most stories are valid. This is the society we have created…